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“I have an extremely close friend that is a girl, and of course I like her, I have for the past 3 years, she is aware of this and is fine with this.

I helped her during her complications with her boyfriend, and after they broke up. I have lied to her and she knows that I have but I did it to make her feel better. She has liked me back and this was when I turned my back to her because she told somebody a secret of mine, and although I overreacted she liked me. She said this was because she was going through a hard time and I didn’t judge her, and the truth is I have never judged her. And I still don’t.

Recently I asked her out again, because she was showing obvious signs of flirting. But she rejected me. Said she didn’t like me like that. Yet she continues the flirting. And now she is sort of treating me as her diary, telling me her secrets that she would tell nobody else. Ever. We are both going through a hard time and I feel like if we got together things would clear up some, how can i get us together

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Her: 13
Me: 14″

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Vilén offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Wait. As a 14-year-old, you’re not old enough to date.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

If it’s meant to be it’ll come in time. No need to rush any relationship at 14. Sounds to me like she just needs a friend right now.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

This will all make sense in about 10 years, don;t loose any sleep over it

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peaceluvsoccer offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Im thirteen like her and i think its nice you two are very close my best friend is a guy (although i have alot of girls that are my best friends) but for right now i say that you all should go out and if it doesnt work STAY FRIENDS

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