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In my experiences with women I find that they can be very mean and heartless. She’s probably thinking something like “I’m going to move and start a new life and I’ll call him and tell him because he has been there for me”. Not that she would think that it might hurt you by her even calling and saying something like that. They are very oblivious to things and seem to be self centered. I say don’t give her the satisfaction of turning you down.

Dammit. I wish you would have waited for the answer before you spoke to her. Women think of themselves and they think they are the only gender that has feelings. Sorry about that bro. Women out number men 12:1 so just find one to occupy your time until you can find one worth showing your emotions to.

You gave up way too much. You should always maintain yourself in a relationship. That way if she moves on then your world wont crash around you. I’m sorry you had to go through that but these are life lessons. My best advice to you is to find your friends or contact your old friends and have some nights on the town. Go have some drinks, go to the strip club, and claim your life back. Life is too short to spend it being bummed over an ungrateful and self centered person.

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In my experiences with women I find that they can be very mean and heartless. She’s probably thinking something like “I’m going to move and start a new life and I’ll call him and tell him because he has been there for me”. Not that she would think that it might hurt you by her even calling and saying something like that. They are very oblivious to things and seem to be self centered. I say don’t give her the satisfaction of turning you down.

That’s totally unfair. She’s his EX she has every right to move on with her life. Is she supposed to grieve over the break up for the rest of her life? What right does he have to tell her what she can or can’t do?

No one said she couldn’t move on. I’m talking about the calling. If you’ve moved on then why call? All it does is bring back old feelings if he has them still for her.

In the original post, he says, “My ex has been really nice to me”, so obviously she thought he’d want to know she was moving. She probably thought it’d hurt him if she moved without telling him or giving him any notice at all.

Which is why women know nothing about men. Can you tell by his responses that he’s crushed?

And men know soooo much about us.

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Dammit. I wish you would have waited for the answer before you spoke to her. Women think of themselves and they think they are the only gender that has feelings. Sorry about that bro. Women out number men 12:1 so just find one to occupy your time until you can find one worth showing your emotions to.

We don’t claim to. So don’t give him some of your expert advice.

Screw you, have fun being alone the rest of your life.

You too ice queen.

We weren’t serious. It’s the internet for god sakes.

If she’s lying to you about it then there is some angle there. Don’t drive yourself crazy trying to figure out. If she wants to tell you what the real problem is then she will. If she doesn’t you can’t force her. I say you should move on and enjoy your life. You shouldn’t have time for people who play games with you. It’s very juvenile.