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I just spent the last half an hour posting a f****** story.

let’s shorten it- my boyfriend’s suicidal over nothing. i can’t talk to him, he’s pushing me away. i think it’s ********-he has nothing worth killing himself over. i know, because i’ve felt that way. what am i going to do? i am finished with crying every night because i can’t share my emotion with anyone.

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12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Don’t say it’s over nothing because you don’t understand. That’s insensitive. I know it can be stressful for you. It might be nothing to you but it means the world to him or else he wouldn’t be thinking those thoughts. You should find a support group for him or find a psychologist for him. He sounds like he really needs it.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (11 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Ah I thought someone would say this. I know it seems insensitive-I say nothing because he has told me himself he doesn’t know what’s wrong. He has a counsellor, who he refuses to go to, so he’s not exactly helping himself. He talks to noone, even me, and shuts himself away in his room, working on pushing it away instead of dealing with it. Perhaps it’s just hormones, which makes it worse and more confusing for him. Of course I give him as much support as I can, and perhaps I used the wrong wording. But how much longer can I help something when I don’t even know what I’m supposed to be doing? It’s like walking on a minefield. Do I leave?

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (14 hours, 10 minutes after post)

I say you should get help for him. I think it sounds much more serious than it looks. The fact that he doesn’t even want to speak to someone says that it can get a lot worse because he has blocked everyone out. I don’t think you should leave but definitely take some time for yourself and make sure he’s not dragging you down with him. He might need a psychological evaluation. It sounds like he may have a chemical imbalance.

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