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Why would an ex make up so many lies designed to hurt me

1 She has a new boyfriend (a lie)
2 She is moving away to england (a lie)
3 She has now another made up fella (a lie)

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

The only thing I can think of is that she feels compelled to lie because of her own inadequacies or because she is in some way ashamed of her life.

Whatever the reason, I don’t think you should pair her any heed - she clearly has no concern for your feelings, so the best things to do is to stop caring about what she says.

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

i know what ur saying
1 minute she is being nice and the next being so nasty and telling lies

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

Someone like that isn’t worth your time.

I’m sure you’ll find someone better, someone who treats you right and who deserves to be with you.
You just need to be open to the opportunities that WILL present themselves.

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (33 minutes after post)

cheers but aint in the modd for lookin. to busy setting up new business ventrue

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

Don’t look, things will happen anyway.
Just be open to possibilities when the arrive.

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (41 minutes after post)

I got all i need now my mate john or jack well if u know him this well he lets u call him john (jack daniels incase ur wondering)

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

I know Jack.

There’s a bottle hidden behind my monitor…

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

well i know him as john see i know him very well lol

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

the good thing about this bottle is her dad bought me it

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

He he - at least you got something good out of the relationship ;-)

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

yea and a nice flat with alot of stuff she and her parents bought for it

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

Next you’ll be telling me the Merc she bought you is sat on the drive :P

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

no she lost me my car cause i lent her the money to help her out promising she would pay it back b4 my payment was due so it got repo’ed

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Ouch.

Well, still, you got the booze and the furnishings, so it could be worse.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

Just assume all that and move on with your life. these things do happen especially if she finds out that you are coping too well than she ever thought.

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