friends help: people are always saying **** about me for having “guy friends.” i really like to talk to guys tho. - Help.com

Seems to me that they don’t have a problem with you having guy friends but with the flirting.

Agreed. Also, don’t be a tease to your guy friends. It’s better to just be friends, and not flirt with them.

Maybe you could tone down the flirting a little bit. Sometimes you have to give a little to get a little.

I don’t think you should change who you are.
You should never change yourself just to meet someone else’s expectations.

The flirting shouldn’t be too much of a problem, so long as you make it clear to your mates that it’s just that and nothing more - it’s just your personality, that’s all.
That said, have any of them misinterpreted your actions so far?

Do you feel attracted to ALL the guys you talk to? Is that why you ‘flirt’? Or is it just the way you talk to guys, not nessecarily because you want a special relationship with them?

In which case, what’s the problem?

I mean, ok, yeah, maybe it would be a bit better if you tried to not flirt with the guys who aren’t single but, still, if everyone knows that’s just how you are, then why worry?

Sorry, can’t help with doctors - only been here a day or two.

To be honest though, I would say you’re much better off speaking to a doctor in person if you’re seeking a medical opinion.
It’s much easier for them to diagnose face-to-face.

If you don’t mind me asking, what do you think is wrong?

Go to another doc to get a second opinion.

You could maybe seek a second opinion.
But, like I say, I would still recommend it be done face-to-face.

Are the symptoms purely physical or do you find yourself stressed, overwhelmed or anything like that?

oh i flirt with my guy friends too.
and some ppl also talk alot, they say i should stop.
but talking to guys is easier then talking to girls…less drama.
and idk how to stop the flirting. it just happens

yeah same here. lol

Definitely see another doctor.

As for the flirting, if that’s the way you are, that’s the way you are - it can’t be helped.
Nor, for that matter, should it have to be.

Don’t ever feel sorry for being the person you are.
Anyone who makes you feel like that isn’t worth wasting your time on.

You don’t have to thank me.
I’m just being honest.

You can have friends of any gender it shouldn’t matter :) If other people are bothered by it just ignore them. As long as they’re just friends and you’re not cheating on anyone it’s fine. I have lots of girl friends.

There is a difference between flirting and friends, and guys definatly don’t know the difference, so mabey you should tone down on the flirtiness.