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Brenda☆ツ

totally depressed

I feel like every year someone close to me has to pass away.
Both of my grandmas and 1 grandpa passed away..I was really close to them.
My sister passed away about 6 years..and for some reason im more depressed than ever about it. :’(
And just today my dads best friend passed. He was one of the nicest guys ever. And he always visited our house. Like always. I had just seen him earlier this week..I still cant believe he’s dead.
Gosh..I just feel really bad right now.

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rai 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

*hugs* I know it doesn’t really help. Just keep your chin up.

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WillaTree 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Hugs too.

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thriple321 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

bless you, you poor thing. i know it’s so hard, but sadly it is part of life - hence why life is so special. i send hugs too!! you’ll be okay, you’re allowed to be sad, give yourself time to grieve, especially for your sister. one thing that is certain in life is everything changes - happy times will come to you. hang on in there xx

Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

thank you so much you guys..i just seriously feel so sad right now.

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thriple321 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

and you’re allowed to feel sad, don’t beat yourself up over it. Can you talk to your parents about these things?

littlenick 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

I’m sorry for you! I hope that every thing in time passess. Many hugs!

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Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Idk.
Right now theyre at the hospital..to see my dads friend.
I didnt want to go. I really dont like being there ever since my sister died.
I dont talk about my feelings alot. I keep it all in. I know thats bad.

Thank you littlenick.

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littlenick 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

You’re going to be all right. Just give it time! It seems like at times all the bad things and all the people whom we love seem to pass and we are still here. But, we also have a purpose and only God knows what your purpose is. However, your purpose now is to pick yourself up from your bootstraps and keep on going. Don’t despair and think depressing thoughts. Please cheer up and smile. You will be just fine! Love ya!

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thriple321 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

well that’s understandable! i don’t think its not necessarily ‘bad’ to keep your feelings in, its just that if they start to overwhelm you, thats not good. but then, you’ve posted this tonight, so you are talking about how you feel! as littlenick says, you will be just fine! people will heal you as you go through life and they will make you happy again xx

Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

yeah i guess your right. thank you.
but when someone that i know dies i start to think about everything.
like why did my sister die and not me. i know its not good to think that but idk.
thanks you guys though. i feel a little better.

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darkscorpia 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

*hug* you take care of yourself.

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Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

thank you

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kazb36 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 52 minutes after post)

i know how u feel. and u may never find a answer that fits right.time does help all u can do is hang in there and try to love every day and all ur friends, family like it might be the last time u see them. hang in there it will get better

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Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (17 hours, 47 minutes after post)

I hope it does get better..
thank you

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kazb36 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

it will and it does help to talk

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Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

i do want to talk about it sometimes.
but i never know how to start

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kazb36 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days after post)

i know.i do like this place .but it would be nice to just have a person to chat with.that knows whats going on.with out typing for 3 hrs lol.

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kazb36 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days after post)

i have to go back to work hell.

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Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 18 hours after post)

lol. yea i feel the samee.
and ok.
thanks.
:)

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kes1215 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

I lost my daugther 6 years ago, my sister 1 year ago, my father 8 months ago……the pain never goes away….but, we have to focus on those family and friends with us and try to make the best of it……I have 4 other children (one of my own and 3 stepkids) who still need me to be there for them and I have 4 grandchildren, all of which I treasure dearly. A huge part of my heart left me with my daughter/the love of my life, another with my sister/my best friend, and my father/my guiding light, but I try to keep going. We have to allow ourselves to grieve and we can’t control when or how often the pain hits us.
Don’t be afraid to love or get close to people, it will only leave you lonely. It’s so true when they say it’s better to have had someone in your life even if just for a short time, rather than to not have known them at all. Think hard about that, and you’ll know that your sister and others would want you to go on and treasure their memories.
Mrs.B.

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Brenda☆ツ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Im so sorry to hear about that. :|

But you’re right. My sister would want me to move on.
Thank you.

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