Yeah, I’m in the same situation…I guess just keep looking for subtle signs. I mean, does he look at you a lot? Or talk to you a lot? Are you guys always friends?
I guess you could try asking one of your friends to ask him or one of his friends who he likes, although sometimes that doesn’t work out…
Or you could try flirting with him and see if he flirts back
the best thing i think is to go out on a ramantic night and lean in for the kiss. if he kisses back your golden!
just tell him straight how you feel………dont worry about hurting anyone else because its your life, you have to live it.
be flirty like charlii says……..and always try and keep the conversation flowing. dont just end it by saying something blunt.
i mean he does a lil of all that. like were friends and stuff and we talk alot. ive asked him who he likes and he says no one but i dont think hes tellin the truth. he made me tell him who i liked even though he already knew i liked him. and i know he knew cuz i told him a month before. and wen he found out i was talkin to his best friend alot he asked who i liked. and i said umm. hes like what u have to think about it? i was like no i dont know how to say it. and then i was like jokingly arguing with him on weather i had to say it. but i ended up telling him. and he doesnt act differently. but yesterday i took my friends hat and hes short so the kid i like was trying to get the hat back for him, and he was all over me ;]
oh yeah but my friend amanda thinks he likes me after i told her that same story. shes like OMG he so likes u. but im not sure.
why dont you just get him on his own and kiss him then? his reaction should tell the truth………
I think he might like you. like doublegin is saying, maybe you do just have to get the message across and kiss him or something to find out.
do not use the l word though…just say you like him alot……because the l word might scare him away.
well, yeah. it’s generally best not to say you love him until you’re in a relationship, or he might freak out.
i mean i kinda wanna ask him out but i dont really want to unless i kno he likes me. cuz i dont take rejection well, like most people. and well. another thing is i havent been in a real relationship before. i mean ive gone out with a couple guys but it didnt last long at all. ive never like actually kissed a guy before so thats kinda weird for me. im the kinda girl that wants the guy to make the first move. but i ges im kinda outta luck there.
and i dont wanna ruin a friendship over this. ill try to get one of our friends to try to find out who he likes. i dont think he really tells anyone who he likes though…
Well, you can’t wait forever. I think you just need to tell him how you feel. I’m terrible with rejection, too, but I’ve learned that eventually people forget things. awkwardness goes away, if things turn out badly. But I’m sure they won’t.
i know i was going to tell him today or yesterday but i havent been able to talk to him. i was guna say sumthin like IM to him. like the last guy i asked out. i was so nervous i couldnt talk. like i couldnt say what i had to say. i was soo nervous.
yeh i think everyone has been there……….but you cant wait on what could be, or could have been. and you being nervous is normal, but just try and show confidence and think positively about what your doing. they say actions speak louder than words,,,,,,,,,so my advice is to just plant one on him………he wont mind if your good or bad at kissing………because you are kissing him lol……..
as for rejection, if he turns you down and rejects your friendship, then that just shows his true feelings towards you!!!
AIM. i just said IM cuz its shorter
Speaking from personal experiance, IM isn’t that great of a place to ask people out. Just saying.
i wasnt guna ask him out on IM. i was just guna talk to him…
dont take this the wrong way katelyno but time for pointless chit chat is over………..
either tell him how you feel or show him……….pointless talking is well…….pointless lol
i just asked his best friend who he liked and he said he didnt kno. :[
oh well. ill have to find out myself i ges.
I feel yah! I like this guy. lets call him “k” and he goes to HS with my best friend. he recently told my best friend he liked me and wants to get to know me better. but whenever were talking thru AIM or text or in person he doesn’t make a move nor does he act like he likes me. I picture him as more of the “I like aggressive girls” type of guy, so should I make the first move?
I’m hanging out with him this wednesday… alone, after school for like an hour because were going to be waiting fr my friend.
do you guys have any ideas or topis for me to talk about? because I’m really nervous.
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im not really sure. things didnt work out between me and the kid i liked. my friend brought her bf and his twin to the movies and i met him. and now im goin out wit him. and everythings great. so im not really sure.
for me its diff when he talks to me its like he’s joking around but then doesnt really talk talk to me. He’s very into his work like he makes 100’s in all his classes hes a dork but nice. I catch him staring at me i think he catches me too. He’s too shy to talk to me im sure. His friends are friends with me too but when hes around his friends he doesnt even look at me. Then when they arent around he says something to me like “took you long enough” when im passing out something in class and smiles. Im confused and he’s doing a bad job of hinting me that he likes me if he does.:[ I think i like him??
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Were probably going to end up being friends because he wont admit anything or try.
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[quote jazzygal_iss]for me its diff when he talks to me its like he’s joking around but then doesnt really talk talk to me. He’s very into his work like he makes 100’s in all his classes hes a dork but nice. I catch him staring at me i think he catches me too. He’s too shy to talk to me other than joking around. His friends are friends with me too but when hes around his friends he doesnt even look at me. Then when they arent around he says something to me like “took you long enough” when im passing out something in class and smiles. Im confused and he’s doing a bad job of hinting me that he likes me if he does.:[ I think i like him??Messing around with me???
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just kiss him man itll either make him tell you he likes you or hell say he doesnt i did it and im in a great relationship with the hottest guy in school
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