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The last time your going to hurt me.

Hi guys this a situation i’ve been through and i turned it into a mini story!

Even though i was angry at her I knew it would be stupid if i just stayed angry at her.
i made myself sit down i told her that i was upset at her.
“ Why are you upset what did i do” she questioned. I was angry that she had not realized what she said. “ You know what you said Blue” I responded.
Then she turned to May and said “ I cant believe she’s mad because i told her that i don’t need more garbage in my room, she was in my way and annoying me.” She scoffed. “
“ Blue, Its not that why don’t you think about it , you always think you can say whatever you want whenever you like.” I exclaimed.
“ Red, come on don’t play that game where she has to guess what she did.” May Pleaded. Tears streamed down my cheek i was so upset at Blue. She had hurt me so much over the years. I was in her room and they were ready to go out when i told Blue that we should really hang out . She was angry at me when i said that , she told me that i had no friends and that i was sticking to her. that really hurt me.
“ Oh, i know what she’s crying about, i told her that she cant make us feel bad about going out , and then i realized why isn’t she going out! Oh she doesn’t any friends. and she’s probably jealous if me and D talking to each other again.”
Instantly i was upset and sad again, why would i be mad if D and Blue were talking , we are family . I went down to D’s room and told him what she said to me i was upset and i was crying, he told me to go up to my room and just sleep and that i would feel better, but i didn’t i was hurt and upset. I was infuriated by Blue and May and i didn’t to talk to them at all.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

This was a little hard to follow.

Communication problems are common. That’s probably what’s going on between you and your friends.

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Marriiiiiiii offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Actually my sisters communication problems with my sisters…

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Older or younger?

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Marriiiiiiii offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Older

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Let them have their space. Realize they are probably hormonal, and that tends to make girls snappy.

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Marriiiiiiii offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

its funny , they told me im harmonal , I was so angry at them , she makes me feel like total crap sometimes i wish she would just understand , it’s not that i didnt want her to go with her friends i just thought that we could hang out i

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

Older sisters need their space, too. Just don’t take it too seriously. Continue to love them and things will get sorted out.

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Marriiiiiiii offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

but it doesnt make sense ! my eldest sister who is 27 , she always cares what i think she never says anything mean to me , whenever she has a relationship problem im the first one to know, she always introduces me to her friends even though they are older then me, she knows how i feel .. why dont my other sisters

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Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

Because they are less mature and their hormones haven’t settled down as much.

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Marriiiiiiii offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

I cant wait till my sister comes home at christmas i havent seen her in a year! i miss her so much!

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