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My fiance’s dad just recently died before our wedding.

When I got home she crying her eyes out. After I calm her down she say she to hold off the wedding for a bit (about a year). I don’t its a great idea cause if we do have to wait another a year to got married.

Its now causing fights because she thinks I’m not supporting her enough. What should I do?

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Wait a year. If it’s love putting it off a year shouldn’t change anything.

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1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

WAIT dummy. Are you kidding me? Do know how hard it is to lose a relative. Especially if they were close. It’s every girl’s dream to have their dad give them away at their wedding. Don’t be heartless.

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berta offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

wait, she would for you

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

What would it change if you wait or get married?

It’s terrible to go to all the planning and working on wedding plans, but it’s an unexpected death.

how can you love someone enough to want to be with them forever and be upset that she wants a year to plan and deal with the aftermath of her fathers passing?

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leann88 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months after post)

that’s so friken sad i hate who ever killed Ur father &*^#@% them

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