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Is it bad to get mad if i get jealous over my boyfriend to being friendly with girls like joking around about thinngs or even caliing them sweetie?
I mean i use to be able to deal with it i’ve been with him for a year and now it’s just really making me angry, i just don’t know if i should be getting jealous because it’s probably nothing but it bothers me really bad :( he’s really nice to other girls to and is willing to help them out but sometimes i don’t get treated that way we fight alot because i’ve been getting jealous and stuff alot lately and im just so confused!!! :(

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berta offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

if you feel he is treating others better than you and it is causing arguements then maybe it is time to cut the ties and move on to someone who will. if you aren’t willing to do that then maybe you should ditch the jealous thing and deal with it. only you can change a situation that you aren’t happy in

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Jealousy is one of the seven sins. You have to learn how to deal with your anger and jealousy and try to control them. Otherwise you are going to be on your way to breaking up your relationship and it might be worse. If your boyfriend is overly friendly with girls and you just don’t like it, just mention it to him. However, if you keep on being angry and jealous, you might push him away from you and into the arms of another willing and waiting girl who might just be waiting to take him away from you. Be careful!

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