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All the way across the state.

A guy that has a crush on me (and has no intention of keeping it from me) lives all the way across the state. We just went to camp together this summer and he only asked me to the dance. Well, I thought that was it. Now he’s e-mailing about getting serious (going out) and even suggesting that I move into his neighborhood, but I secretly like a guy that lives in my city and goes to my school! Now that’s a different story! We’ve been friends since elementary and now we’re in 7th. I think he might like me too, but what about my camp dance date? Both boys are really sweet and, since I didn’t want to hurt either, I told the camp boy I like him! Now the situation’s getting sticky, and even my other camp friends are suggesting I date him. PLEASE HELP!

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Wow lol…. Why dont you just talk to the guy who you live nearest to and forget about the other guy. Are you going back to camp and will you see him soon? Its not like you can actually convince your parents to move just because to be near this guy lol

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

I know. This is crazy. It’s like having to decide between guaranteed love and real love. The thing is, the camp boy and I keep in touch through e-mail, so I talk to him regularly (can’t just forget about him), and, no joke, he REALLY likes me. Sorry if that sounds too strong, but it’s the truth. I might even sort of like the camp guy now. And I don’t plan on moving!

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1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Well soon emailing will get old and you are going to want more. So i dont know go with whoever you like more. You are young so any relationship you have now will probably not be that serious

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