friends help: i need help in making friends: - Help.com

say the first thing that comes to your mind. no matter how silly it is. that is being yourself. you’ll find how easy it is if you just relax and be yourself.

well… for me making friends is just so natural. I don’t even know how to start.
You obviously wanna engage her in conversations. Stuff that people like to talk about. Don’t be talking about sad or depressive things. Smiley and laught a lot. You gotta offer her something that will make her want to talk to you again. If you simply talk and listen, you won’t be that much of a interesting person. Try to be funny, then if you tell me “I don’t know how to be funny” then just laught, even for no reason. If you run out of things to talk about just look her in the eyes, something will pop I promise

No friendship can be forced. Some people just arnt going to be your friends. It is difficult for me too, but never try to force yourself on someone because that can make someone very uncomfortable.

A good way to become friends quickly is to find common interests to discuss. You can do this easily by talking outside of school. Get her msn, or facebook or myspace or whatever you kids use and use it as a tool to communicate your likes and dislikes. Never rush this, but remember you can always suggest going to see a movie (an activity that does not require alot of talking because its during a film, and afterwards you will both be able to talk about the movie).

Also try to be social with other people, you never know when you’ll find a friend. Anyways good luck, and try to have more confidence in yourself and just be natural. It will happen, I promise.