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I’m doing what i said i wouldn’t :S

about 4 months ago there was a messy breakup between me and my girlfriend, and I told myself that I should enjoy being single.

I’ve started to fall for this girl though who used to fancy me. we met first year in uni and she definatly liked me then.

she knows about my past and my ex girlfriend ( they were living next door to each other) we just seem to be getting on so well, adn are so similar - we actually admitted 2day that life would have been so much easier for both of us if we had gone out with each other , as shes had a bit of a rough year at uni last year as well.

we are spending about 4 hoursa night atm on webcam just chatting to each other, i’m seeing her on wednesday.

i think i’m falling for her is the problem. i’m not sure how i should feel about that - as i told myself i was going to wait at lesat 6 months befoer i got into a relationship, and it has only been 4, but when i think about that i tell myself that the last 3 months of me and my ex doesn’t really count as she was screwing around and making my life hell

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

U never know when love strikes can’t put a time on it. It loves to play with ur timetable

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silent moonlight offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

i want to make sure that she isn’t just a rebound though

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

4months isn’t a rebound thing

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 21 minutes after post)

you cant tell yourself how long its going to be before you find someone. After a break up i told my self that i was not going to date for a while. I think you just take life as it come and if you find someone specially you might as well go for her. You cant let an opportunity like that go to waste just because you said something to yourself in the past, plus you were probably hurt at the time.

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silent moonlight offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

thank you

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