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I HAVE NO IDEA WHATS HAPPENING.

My best friend Treston is acting weird.
Today when I saw him earlier he acted normal nothing was wrong ,until Igot home and we started talking again online.
He says hes mad about something but he wouldn’t tell me why.Im his best friend..what could possibly gone wrong?
This is our convo
ME: heyy u sure nothings wrong cause we could talk about it.
him: yea ok.
ME: …yeah…….are u sure?
Treston: yea.
WTFFFF.i kept trying like that but no progess…Should I leave him alone or what? this is so confusing. Before he says like he really wants to have someone with him(gf) but I DONT KNOW. what the freak is going to with Treston and why won’t he talk to me? I didn’t do anything I’m sure..he even told me.But still wtf?
Plus I was going to tell him today.That I HAD feelings for him.

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Azrael_ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Dating is a confusing dance. Sometimes when two people are genuinely into each other, they send out mixed signals.

Talk about it like it is. Don’t dance around it. You can either spend 2 days trying to ‘talk’ about something, or 2 minutes.

Talk about the source, just say, just do. Be honest, brutal, yet gentle.

Tell him how you feel about him, don’t delay. He may be shocked, but in a good way as he sounds like you may have said/did something negatively.

Sadly people assume most of the time, and all to often they are over 90% wrong.

Don’t assume, just do.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

But like..were not exactly toghter though
I was actually going to tell him that I did have feelings for him..until he started acting like that..now It’s like..was that a sign? AM i noe post to tell him?

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

just tell him already, geez… it’s sort of obvious he has one for you too!
then just enjoy, firsts are always wonderful, i reckon you’ll be smiling for nothing for the next month or so.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

Wait…what If…he doesn’t like me back? And tells everyone that I had a thing for him?.
That would be sooo humilating..but then again I want to know how he feels though..but hes still not talking to me though..Im thinkin about calling him later on so he can like calm down.

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Azrael_ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

At least you will know.

Either wait on edge of your seat for days and weeks. Or mere seconds.

You will know sooner rather than later.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

Okay..I know what Im going to do..
I’ll tell him..EVERYTHING I feel for him..
If he doesnt feel the same way..oh well I’ll move on
I’ve been holding this back from him for 2 yrs now..its time..I tell him.
I just hope he picks up his phone…plus what if he doesnt even call me?
…… *sigh*

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Azrael_ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (54 minutes after post)

Good girl.

At least you will know, and the game with him will cease.

A new one will develop with another guy.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Whats the worse case scenario ? he wont like you in the same way ? well then you still remain friends, no harm done :-)

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dimmingstar1376 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 hours, 57 minutes after post)

did you tell someone you where going to tell him you liked him and planned on expressing that if so it could have trickled down to him and he doesn’t know how to react so he is putting up a guard till he can figure it out

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