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Hi 2 years ago I discovered that I am bisexual, and nobody apart from my best friend knows and he only found out today.

He says I should tell the girl who I like that I do like them, but I dont know how they will react and I am really scared that she will tell other people about my sexuality, and people at my school act really badly around homosexual or bisexual people.

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littlenick 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

I have always had that question: How do you discover that you are actually bisexual?

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
I have always had that question: How do you discover that you are actually bisexual?

you just realize it. it’s like there’s finally a word for your feelings.

is the girl that you like lesbian or bi? if not, don’t tell her… it may freak her out

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1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

yodaluv12 wrote:

littlenick wrote:
I have always had that question: How do you discover that you are actually bisexual?
you just realize it. it’s like there’s finally a word for your feelings.is the girl that you like lesbian or bi? if not, don’t tell her… it may freak her out

she is bi i think

Kuvri (yodaluv12) 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

are you friends with her?

get to know her a bit, then tell her (in private) that you’re bi. don’t say that you like her though! see what she says. give her time, and if she doesn’t say that she’s bi as well, ask her “have you ever thought about your sexuality?” and see what she says. If she is bi, then you could tell her you like her a bit later. give her time to think about it! good luck!

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

(by give her time, i mean like a few days or a week between each step)

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1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

yodaluv12 wrote:
are you friends with her?

get to know her a bit, then tell her (in private) that you’re bi. don’t say that you like her though! see what she says. give her time, and if she doesn’t say that she’s bi as well, ask her “have you ever thought about your sexuality?” and see what she says. If she is bi, then you could tell her you like her a bit later. give her time to think about it! good luck!

yea me n her are close friends, well the last time i asked her she fancied a girl and a guy and i dont think its changed .

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

ok well come out to her then!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

yea me n her are close friends, well the last time i asked her she fancied a girl and a guy and i dont think its changed .

If she had liked a girl, she’s probably bi. Tell her you’re bi if you trust her.

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