Love help: I need help in a final letter in a break up.

WillaTree

I need help in a final letter in a break up.

Background info: Very rocky five month r’ship with dozens and dozens of breaking up and getting back together, have tried many times to break up in person but it becomes a ’scene’ where he won’t physically leave my house; tells me that we should be together, that we love each other, that we’ve been through so much together, yada yada yada. I’ve told him that I see no future with him and that I don’t want to be with him…yet we still find ourselves together…anyway, I’m definitely over it and want a clear cut no ‘Buts’ note/letter. Please help?

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littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

What kind of guy is told by a girl “I see no future with him” and still insists on being together? How dense is this guy?

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WillaTree 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Unfortunately, very.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

He’s not dense he is in denial. You have to be brutally honest with him and probably even hurt his feelings. He’ll hate you but at least he will get the message. Do not call him back after, do not respond to him AT ALL. He has to understand that it is truly over.

littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Tell him what I tell all the girls I want to break up with and they don’t get the point: Take a hike on the busy freeway, totally naked, blindfolded, covered in honey with African killer bees chasing him, with two raw very meaty pork chops hanging from his neck with hungry hyenas chasing him and if he manages to come back alive, you will still go out with him. If he does not get it then he is definitely dense!

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WillaTree 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

He would ask Where can I get the pork chops?

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littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

WillaTree wrote:
He would ask Where can I get the pork chops?

That’s dense!

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WillaTree 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Ok…I wrote:

It is truly over between us. There is no future with you.

Please do not contact me. I promise not to contact you.

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littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

If that is not to the point, I don’t know what is! Wow! So dense boy will not get the point. Send him a one way ticket to the South Pole see if he gets that point!

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beatricegalant 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

Tell him you will contact the police and report him of harassment if he still bothers you. That will work.

fairydust24 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

this guy has got to be a freak am I right?

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emeraldswolf683 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (54 minutes after post)

call the cops

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littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Kills his favorite horse, cut off its head, and put it on his bed when he is asleep! Do you think he might get the point then?

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WillaTree 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

No, he wasn’t a freak…just intensely persistent…and we had great chemistry together but that was it.

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littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

Chemistry without love. No fireworks?

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THE INTERNET 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

like mixing NaCl in H2O
it just dissolves

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THE INTERNET 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Kills his favorite horse, cut off its head, and put it on his bed when he is asleep! Do you think he might get the point then?

oh god what is this from?
i swear it is from something!

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Your_Guardian_Angel 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

All you must do is speak from your heart, without crushing him. Be assertive, not overly-dramatic. Be strong, but sensitive. Bottom line: sum up your relationship into about 3 paragraphs and give it to him in private.

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