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I’m really lonely…

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I don’t really fit in with my family. They just don’t understand me. I sit alone in my room writting or watching TV. I don’t really have that many friends and the ones I do have don’t want to be bothered with these stupid depressed feelings. IT’s hard to be around some one thats negative all the time. My one and only friend is my older sister who just found out that I self harm. She freaked on me as which I couldn’t blame her. We tell each other everythin but this is just something I couldn’t bear tell her. I just want to hurt myself no one else. IF I hurt myself then no one else can. At least I get to feel the pain when Im ready too….ahhh i’m lost….

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Well, first of all, why is it that you don’t have a lot of friends?
Is it just because you’re shy or something else?

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

I do have friends they are all ways busy. I do have a hard time meeting new people because I am shy. Plus I’m just so down all the time alls I want to do is come home and go to bed. I can’t even pull myself together. That makes it hard to get to know someone.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

You dont have to be lonely if you dont want. You said you are shy but you can still meet new people. It might be a bit harder but that is not an excuse. You can also meet people on the internet. That might be a good way to start. You asked for help and it can also be a first step towards meeting new people. You also have to take care of yourself hurting yourself is not going to do any good. You are looking for improvements not to make things worse.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

i know the feeling of wanting to be the only victim of your pain and feeling there’s no one there when need the most but reality everything we do hurts others whether we know it or not one of my bf flipped when she found out i was hurting myself they aren’t going to understand but you have a great start you seem to have great relationship with your sister. If you can go hangout with her or do something with your friends you’ll have something to look forward to which might shoot some energy into you

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (5 hours, 2 minutes after post)

I don’t fit in my family too. I always stay in my room whenever i’m at home and I’m not even on talking terms with my sister who used to be my best friend. sometimes i just feel like disappearing from this Earth and leave no evidence behind. I’m sorry I can’t help you……. because I can’t help myself either. =(

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