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So heres my question can trust in a relationship be regained or are you better off just walking away?
Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I have a really hard time trusting him now but it never used to be an issue. About eight months ago he started this kick where he would go to the bar at night and not tell me till the next day. The first time he did it I was cool with it all I asked was that the next time he went just to let me know that way if soemthing happens in the middle of the night or I wake up and pone him and he doesnt answer i would no why. He said he was cool with it, but it never happened. Also this first time he ran into a friend of mine and i guess they got into an argument, they both claimed nothing happened but she says he was flirting with her and he says she hit on him and it really was just a completely ugly mess where no one was actually sober enough to acutally fully remeber what happened. Around this time a lady I worked who happens to know one of his exes phoned me and told me that he had phoned her and tried to hook up with her. I searched his phone and there was a number that he had called that he claimed he didnt know who it belonged to and there was a text saying “good morning ;)” from it as well. I let it go and chose to believe nothing happened. But the going ou tbehind my back kept happening and when I got really mad and threatened to leave he started lying to me about where he was going so he could still go to the bar. And almost everytime he went out I would here from someone that we had broken up and he had even told his mom at one point that we had broken up. things have been good between us for awhile but he still does really suspicious things the other day I wanted to show him a picture on facebook and he mistakenly typed in the url for a dating website, and then I caught him on nexopia again where his profile claimed he was single and his excuse was that he only checks it once in awhile and he didnt notice bt he had added new pictures and updated everyhting else and is actually on it almost everyday. I love him with all my heart and I can’t remember my life without him and can’t picture my future without him but I also cant stop thinking that he is lying to me and its makeing me paranoid. what should I do?
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