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“why are you so anti-social?
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So i went to trip and went this popular street with my female friend where travelers or businessmen go to drink and get wasted.
usually I like to do have fun and like the atmosphere of ppl getting drunk. But I do not like stranger (male) try to hook up with me. I’m not interested in those guys and don’t want to have any “friendship” or whatever it’s called. But I don’t mind that my female frds are enjoying conversations with those guys.
But my friend i went to the street with looked so obvious that she wanted to get attention and wanted to hook up. It’s ok but I feel bad to say this but she acted so ,,, I don’t know how to say. like “pick me up!!” or something like that. (she is not a ****. she doesn’t sleep with those guys!!! ) We went out only two of us so I felt very uncomfortable coz im the opposite.
She doesn’t have many close female friends and most of her friends are men. And it seems she always has backup plan when she is dating with a guy. She always want men’s attentions.
I like her and she is a nice girl and nice to me. But I don’t feel to hang out with her much anymore, especially drinking.
She said “why are you so anti-social?” Am I????? Am i strange that i don want to get to know guys at a bar or club? I’m just not intersted in those drunk guys!!! ( I dated with a guy I met a rock band’s live concert but it’s kinda different coz at least i know the guy had a common interest;the band. )
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