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Should I bother?

Met this girl, seemed to be enjoying the time at the show and talking. Got her number to meet up sometime, when I was heading downtown, she was too tired to go. Facebooked her and talked to her. I created some small talk and such through messages.

I told her I owed her some drinks so she said when she was around I could return the favor. I asked if she goes out much. Didn’t get a response in over a week. She’s been on recently but no response.

I was planning on sending her a message to just let her know how I felt about her. Nothing to in your face, but something that would say “hey, I’m interested in you and was curious on how you felt”.

Given the lack of response, I don’t think it is a good idea, mainly because I don’t want to bother. I think that risks are worth taking and all, but not when there may be signals I’m not picking up on.

Lol, anyway, I’m asking you people here cause I’m a guy and stupid when it comes to understanding women. Any girls out there who can shine some light would be very helpful.

Thanks everyone! Any questions, please ask!

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

No. She doesn’t like you. Sorry. :(

Hopefully you’ll meet someone nice soon.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

I don’t think she’s interested. I’m sorry.
Sometimes when girls just want to be polite rather than saying “I don’t like you” they’ll agree to things such as meeting up or going out for a drink. It’s pretty harmless. However, ultimately, if they stop replying to your messages ..it means they’re either not going to fall through with that, or they’re no longer interested.

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1 year ago (10 hours, 44 minutes after post)

Lol, no need to apologize =)

But thanks for the clarification. It makes sense and I figured I’d just ask to get a second opinion.

Thanks!

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

hmm she probably doesn’t like you… sounds like she was just being nice or friendly. There really isn’t much of a chance there, but if you do want a shred of hope it could be that the girl perceived do you go out much? as some kind of insult. Girls can be like that and read into things a lot more than what was intended.

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