Family help: i feel so… paranoid. - Help.com

I’m sorry you feel this way around your family. You must not be that bad ’cause bad people don’t care and you do. Therefore you’re not bad! haha Why do you think they hate you if you don’t mind my asking? wanna talk about it?

Take care of yourself first. If you can’t handle going, then don’t. Get some advice from a counselor if you can- paranoia can be serious…

I’m sorry. Sometimes the people we get dealt with as family come up short and that isn’t fair! It isn’t right that they keep compairing you to your mother. Do they know how you feel when you say that?
Are you and your sister close? Maybe you should go to the wedding. I know it will be hard because of all these emotions but you don’t have to stay the whole time. Show them that your the bigger person and will be their to support them even tho at times they are not there for you. This way maybe you can talk things out with them kind of get these feelings behind you! This is just mearly suggestion dear, hope it may help.:)

Your absolutley right it is hard situation but not impossible. I believe you are a good person because if you weren’t you wouldn’t care so much about what your family thinks about you. Maybe give your sister a call and just make small talk go from there. You said something about your cousin earlier. Could you talk to her about it? Maybe that would make you feel a little more at ease with the situation. Right now just take a deep break and breathe honey. I know this is stressing you out but it’s not for another week. Bring someone you trust with you to the wedding that can be your back up if things get sticky. At least then you can have another persons opinion if your ideas of your family are correct. Who knows hopefully everything will work out and things will be ok! I hope for you the best:)

Me too dear! Just take it day by day and try not to over focus on it, k? Let me know how it goes would ya?! Give me a shout out or something! :) Good luck! xoxox