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Is the term opposites attract true?

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If u hav seen my other posts u see that i like this guy. well, Hes like the complete opposite of me but i still like him. Its like i dont want to like him. I DONT WANT TO LIKE HIM. but i like him anyway. He is the opposite of me and somehow the other boys that have a lot in common with me i dont like them at all. IM SO CONFUSED…
okay help me and ill help you. honest

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Kalorok offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

its good to have some differences in relationships but at the same time you need to relate on the same level and have similar main acceptences.. if you agreed on EVERYTHING the relationship would be boring

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

heres an overview….. i hate that i like this boy. I hate that i like him because we are like complete opposites.

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

i guess that was the overview…. just keeping things simpler

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Kalorok offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

it doesnt sound like you like-like him, it sounds like you could have a phsycial attraction and none-other.. most of the time its enjoyable to like another person :/

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Kalorok offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

it doesnt sound like you like-like him, it sounds like you could have a phsycial attraction and none-other.. most of the time its enjoyable to like another person..

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1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

believe me i just like him bcuz he is funny and smart, and some other things.

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Kalorok offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

that’s a physical attraction not a mental attraction

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

I think for me it is ..in some ways.
I dress sort of girly and preppy (if that’s what you could call it?) But the guys who I’m attracted to are tattooed with ripped jeans and gauges. Lol.

Personality wise, I’m attracted to someone who is honest who can hold good conversation and make me laugh. Someone who is ’stupid funny.’
Different people like different things ..there’s nothing wrong with that. However, I think if you have too many differences it can hurt the relationship.

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