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Am i simple or am i lazy?

hello all. i am just a simple girl. with simple dreams, simple wants. i hate material things. even make-up. weird? idk. i find happiness in the most mundane of things. my happiness is my family, my home, my dreams. is that simplicity or laziness? yah i dream of those too, big car, big houses. but i still eager and hope to find my happiness above all. sometimes it is elusive, sometimes within reach. idk. am i making sense? maybe not. thanks for reading anyway. good day!

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❤ℓινιηgJst4u offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 146 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Yea’…you make sense alright.
Its ok dream.
But simply dreaming can’t alone make those things comes true.
You gotta work it towards them.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

i guess you could say it is simple but that is a good quality. you can find happiness in life in the most important things. material possessions dont get you very far. you sound like you have good values! kudos!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

yea..its good.
Its the place where you can be happy.

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1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

thanks jleec, unleash. but in a material world such as ours, we can never be enough. and people always seem to want what they don’t have :p

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

well you have already transcended it if you are happy with family and stuff like that.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

thanks. right now i am happy with my family. savor it while it last. then move on again. happiness could really be elusive. and i am now happy. so i should not just waste it. got to savor it while it last.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
thanks jleec, unleash. but in a material world such as ours, we can never be enough. and people always seem to want what they don’t have :p

Is not like that completly. All we want is to be happy and to have wht we dream’t about it. Simply living just for money isn’t right. We’re humans and we always think the impossible and we finally make it possible.
Without dream, there is nothing to it.
Just dream and try to accomplish your dreams which will make your more happy.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Tolstoy said something to the tune of (im paraphrasing here) happiness can only be achieved when we accept our place in life and make the best of what we have around us

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

Unleash wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
thanks jleec, unleash. but in a material world such as ours, we can never be enough. and people always seem to want what they don’t have :p
Is not like that completly. All we want is to be happy and to have wht we dream’t about it. Simply living just for money isn’t right. We’re humans and we always think the impossible and we finally make it possible.Without dream, there is nothing to it.Just dream and try to accomplish your dreams which will make your more happy.

i was like that when i was younger. but as i grow older, it became tiresome as well

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

I don’t think you’re lazy!
:)
I think you actually have a very realictic, and good sense of what is REALLY important in life. :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

yea’..but don’t forget your dreams. Thts many things we’re living for. Slowly and try to find wht you can do with your dream and try to reach towards it.
Sometimes, somethings will never be accomplished and you have to give it up.
Hey….but now you’re a big girl and you know wht can do and wht you can dream.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

thanks. love you all for taking the time to reply! :p

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

You’re welcome. And your name?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

gabriela-isabel wrote:
I don’t think you’re lazy!
:)
I think you actually have a very realictic, and good sense of what is REALLY important in life. :)

I agree!
Too many people now-a-days over obsess about stupid materialistic things.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (42 minutes after post)

Unleash wrote:
You’re welcome. And your name?

che :p

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (43 minutes after post)

:D whts that? che

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (45 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Unleash wrote:
You’re welcome. And your name?
che :p

Here waiting for you reply…

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (53 minutes after post)

Huh? wat u mean, i am che. call me che

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (54 minutes after post)

anonymous wrote:
huh? wat u mean, i am che. call me che :p smiley

Ok “che”..thats small and cute.

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1 year ago (57 minutes after post)

I am not small though. i am 5′5″ tall. cute yeah, they tell me that.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (58 minutes after post)

ohh…then surely you are big.^^
Anyway, i’m leaving.
If possible post your emial id in my shout box.
Nice talking with you big girl.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 hours, 40 minutes after post)

You know I like simple girls. It is not true that when one is simple, that person is lazy. “Simplicity is beauty,” don’t you know that?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

I agree with Sear!!
:)

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