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no dude no! you are being wayyy too needy! always being available and calling all the time is killing your chances if you havent blown it already! girls dont want a guy whos falling all over them, they want a guy who THEY can win. doing what you are doing is giving her the impression that you are desperate.

nah let it ride. its not like she your only option, last i knew this world was filled with women

Some girls are retarded, and don’t appreciate a good guy. I wouldn’t call her back. Let her contact you… :)

yes, do NOT call her. even on saturday 15 minutes before, wait for her to call you. If she is interested she will make the effort

And YES, about Sat. Let HER call you….
;-)

Awe, I know… :S
But it’s VERY necessary!!!! If you feel you’re gonna cave in and call her, I don’t know, call up a friend or do something that will distract you…but whatever you do…DON’T call!!! he he ;-)

yeah let her call you.

it’s good to feel someone is interested in you.
but give her sometime to miss you.
it’s nothing bad!

Yes!! let her miss you!!! If she doesn’t, she’s an idiot! he he!

Awe, ankit~
If guys were as sweet as you, the world would for sureee be a better place! lol!
Unfortuantely, most, not all….are NOT so sweet. he he

I don’t know how old YOU are, he he, but I’LL drink to that! ha ha!!!

Oh! Ha ha. Good.
Then WE can drink to us being soooo nice and sweet!
God, anyone reaading this post now will think I’M a total retard!!! How did THAT happen?!!! lol!!!!!

Awe, I wrote a word that shouldn’t be used!! So my previous post is being “Reviewed” he he. I said something like…

Now WE can drink to that…and something about how anyone reading this post now will think I’M, umm….lets say, so dorky?? he he.

I’m sure my original mess. will post in a bit! ;-)

noooooo. don’t call

She sounds jolly rude! If she didn’t want you to help with her project, she should have had the courtesy to tell you straight off when you offered to google stuff for her.

A simple “no, it’s ok thank you. I’d better do the research myself. I’ll talk to you Friday about our trip out on Saturday” is all that was required.

Ask yourself if she isn’t being somewhat unfair?

Rejecting your call was bizarre… could it be a case of not wanting someone else to know? A parent in the room perhaps?

My advice would be to text her on Thursday and tell her… “I don’t understand why you rejected my calls but would like to hear from you by tomorrow if we are still on for Friday. Hope all is ok with you…” Then leave her to do the calling.

When you do meet on Saturday, tell her in no uncertain terms that you weren’t impressed with her response to your help given that she hadn’t indicated she didn’t want to hear back from you…

If there’s no sensible explanation, don’t waste your time on women who do not appreciate you.

i will disagree with what was said above. dont call at all. allow her to make some effort. if you text her it means you caved again.

On the contrary.. the text, carefully worded, shows you don’t put up with timewasters. It doesn’t allow her to not call and then claim to be waiting for yours! It forces her hand… that’s not giving in but taking control of the situation.

ankit I’m lovin’ the your profile pic! Very neat!!
=)

So,has she called yet???
PLEASE tell me you have NOT called her!!! lol

You are most welcome Ankit~
I hope everything works out with your lady!! =)