Love help: Why is it that at the start of my life everything was going ok, well so i thought for a few years! - Help.com

Hey there, Dont feel bad and blame yourself.
Sometimes, life is like this, bad things suppose to happen.
But, think of leaving your childrens, thats not a good choice to make.

I know its not the right choice to make and hopefully each time these thoughts enter my head i’ll realise that. x

Yea..those feelings never go away.
But, you have child now, they are the world for you now.
Dont care for anything in this world except them.

Your right, thay are my life and i’m going to do everything in my power to get better and make them happy and proud to cal me their mum!
Thank you i’m sure i can do this. x

Thats it!! Eventhough you still feel, just try think about them. surely they will make you happy.
Or may be still , someone out there who can still understand you and start you life again.

I’m sure these thoughts will stay for a while but i’llfight through them for my boys sake. They bring me so much happiness so i’ll do the same for them. Hopefully one day that ‘Mr right’ will come along and put the love back thats missing but until then i have the boys and thay are worth more than anyone or anything xx

Thats the spirit. With your positive thinking and confidence, surely you be a proud mother for them. Be strong.

Sorry you had to endure the abuse of these a** h****. Sadly they are everywhere. We all learn from our mistakes. From now on, be sure the guy in your next relationship, is deserving and worthy of you. Put yourself up on the pedastal,that they should have done.You now have the knowledge, in what NOT to choose for a mate. their loss, someone else’s gain. When you stop looking for someone, it seems the right one will come along. For now, focus and your children, and don’t bring another around them unless they are worthy. Children can get attached easily, and can sense when Mom, is sad and just not happy. There is no purer love, then that from a child. God will send you what you need when the time is right. All the best to you and yours :)

These words of reasurrence really do help when i’m reading them and i start to feel a little stronger but it lasts minutes and then something will happen, a song on the radio or something little that someone says, or seeing others so happy even everywhere around me. I try hard and will always be there for my boys no matter what. They do bring me happiness and for that i love them dearly always. I will stop looking for now and will concentrate on making myself and my boys the happiest we can be!
xx