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i am a single mom with 4 children,how 2 get help for

the holidays so i could see beautiful smiles on there faces :)i have medical problems and cant work ! thanks for your great replies♥

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Get a job? Contact a local charity? …

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (34 minutes after post)

A 14 yr old has income?

Where’s yours?

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...stephanie... offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

you need to get a job. your 14 year old should be going to school.
that’s selfish of you in my opinion.
and if you don’t have a person to watch the kids while you are at work
then you should have your 14 year old join a home school program, so that
she can watch the kids at home during the day while you work, while still being able to have an education.

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 196 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 50 minutes after post)

How can you be living off your 14 year old’s income?? That’s insane. You are supposed to be supporting them not the other way around! Hello? Anybody Home??? That’s awful!

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pamelasusan6 edited this post 1 year ago. Read the previous text »

i am a single mom with 4 children, living off my 14 yr olds income at the moment, how could i get help for the holidays so i could see beautiful smiles on there faces :)

pamelasusan6 edited this post 1 year ago. Read the previous text »

i am a single mom with 4 children, get help for the holidays so i could see beautiful smiles on there faces :)i have medical problems and cant work ! thank to your very nice replys♥

The Clue offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
Minot, ND, US | 1 year ago (11 hours, 29 minutes after post)

You can edit it all you want but it will still get you the same response. You need to get a job, go to your local command labor and get some temp work. Then you will see the smiles on your kids faces. Hope this helps :-)

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shannonlynnnola offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 3 weeks after post)

I am also a single mom of four. I’m completely understand your delima. Child care cost is ubsurd and working five to seven days a week to make enough income to pay for food, rent, electric, fuel, clothing for the kids, water, and the extras like TP and shampoo, soap ect. without any help or financial support is enough to kill ya. or a least put someone over the edge with exhaustion. I applaud you first of all for asking for help, every mother wants to give to thier children over the holidays, if not everyday. And it breaks our hearts to see them go without….anything. I know that pain. I’m sorry. And shame on you stone throwers, most people are all talk when it comes to judging others but, when it comes to walking in your shoes, i’ts a different story. Compassion, is there though if you look in the right places. Get with a womans center or a church, there are support gruops on line as well, search high and low ,it’s exhausting I know, I am one of the strongest people I know,lol And my kids will benefit for that. I also give amazing props to the fourteen year old thier a few of his/her kind out there willing to sacrifice their youth for thier family. Oprah should hear about this amazing kid or Doctor Phil seriously. But, that child is wonderful to be so loving and kind. Mom be an overcomer for you kids, with every dead end find a new road. And I hate hearing “You got yourself there now you deal with the consequences!” Cause guess what… it wasn’t just you, where are the responsible father/s they should be paying enough child support for these children to not be suffering….. And, truley no matter how hard a single mother tries it is the children who suffer. So please people just try to understand. If you cannot show any love or compassion, Don’t judge… Believe me God or karma or whatever you may chose to believe will judge you like you judge others! I see it everyday in my own life!
God Bless you and your children. I wish I had more to give I would help!

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