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my boyfriend well now he’s my ex told me that he don’t

want to break up before our break up he told me that after he is done with all the seniors stuff and stress that he wanna stop the realationship and get back to it later after he is stress free…..he ask me too wait for him and i said yes but why everytime i see him he keeps ignoring me is that a good sign that i should wait for him

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

Don’t put your life on hold. You’re young and in school. Don’t focus on this guy. Live your life. Go out and do stuff. Join social groups, clubs, do sports. Have a full and exciting life and if someone great appears, then get to know him. If not, you can come back to this boyfriend and see if you still feel the same way about him.

Just don’t waste your time thinking about this.

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alexsohot offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (33 minutes after post)

phew thank u so much

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lolol111111 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

If he said that he wanted to end the relationship, (even if he meant only for a little bit, either way, he is still ending it) he wants to end the relationship. That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t go out with your friends, flirt, and just have fun! but you should consider if you want to get back together with your boyfriend later, because if you do end up falling for another guy while your boyfriend is on his “relationship vacation,” then you may end up being confused about who you really want to date. But don’t let your boyfriend hold you back.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (47 minutes after post)

lolol111111 wrote:
If he said that he wanted to end the relationship, (even if he meant only for a little bit, either way, he is still ending it) he wants to end the relationship. That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t go out with your friends, flirt, and just have fun! but you should consider if you want to get back together with your boyfriend later, because if you do end up falling for another guy while your boyfriend is on his “relationship vacation,” then you may end up being confused about who you really want to date. But don’t let your boyfriend hold you back.

but when he sees me he ignores me even when i say hi to me

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (50 minutes after post)

Ok I may be wrong here, but it seems like the “no guts” syndrome, my feeling is if he intended getting back with you, he wouldn’t be ignoring you would he ??? I think Id feel inclined to get on with my life hon. :-)

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alexsohot offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (57 minutes after post)

Sasha101 wrote:
Ok I may be wrong here, but it seems like the “no guts” syndrome, my feeling is if he intended getting back with you, he wouldn’t be ignoring you would he ??? I think Id feel inclined to get on with my life hon. :-)

oh okay just wat i wanted to hear thanx because i was like if he intended to get back with me he wouldn’t be ignoring me thanx!!! :-)

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Yep, don’t “waste the pretty” babe move on )))hugs :-)

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