Ya bud. I’m not really sure if anyone knwos what the hell theyre doing. But sometimes it’s fun right? :P Sometimes its not. do you mean in like an existentialist way? or in a . sad way?
nope, not lost at all. Happy in general though. And there isn’t really a point. But, ‘a point’ has nothing to do with being happy. ;)
I’m so lost, when I was born I got halfway out and tried to go back in. o.O
sometimes I wish I would have stayed there…
is it worth the hassle.is life worth the hassle?
i can do stuff for twenty hours a day and it can all mean nothing.so what is the point.is it to make oneself happy,is that not selfish?
is it to make those around u happy?
whats tha point of that? everyoone hurts each other soon enuf
im not suicidal but there are days when i just think to myself, id love to load a gun adn end it all. i used to be asamedd to think that but why should i be.i cant apologize for how i feel.
Just doing stuff is pointless. Sit down and brainstorm a list of directions and possibilities. Share your list with people you trust.
Direction gives life meaning.
You won’t find “meaning” anywhere on its down. You create meaning in what you do. What meaning does exercise have? If it slims you down, makes you feel healthy and confident, encourages you to run races, bike races, socialize, get to know people, then it has a lot of meaning and value. See… direction is everything.
Stop worrying about making the right decision. There is no meaning to life. There is no right choice. You just choose something and work at it. When it doesn’t work out, you try something else. Focus on the interactions with people, focus on the positive things you learn, experience. Enjoy as many experiences and relationships as you can.
Anonymous wrote:
lost
no map
no light
Sometimes, yeah….
In complete absence of everything, in an eternal void…
well, maybe even if your life seems pointless, perhaps you were meant to impact someone else’s life in some small and seamingly insignificant way. And that person impacts another and so on, and so on. And in the end, the world was a better place, just because you were there. :)
well there is nothing other than life. Its all youve got.
hassle is just another part of life. and if you want to kill yourself. wellt hats just game over.
but youve got to realize that though the romance and excitement of suicide may go on,you won’t knwo about it. You will just cease to exist. Theres nothing after you live.
Unless you believe in the whoel afterlife thign
which just makes no sense
Anonymous wrote:
is it worth the hassle.is life worth the hassle?i can do stuff for twenty hours a day and it can all mean nothing.so what is the point.is it to make oneself happy,is that not selfish?is it to make those around u happy?whats tha point of that? everyoone hurts each other soon enuf
Making yourself happy should be the first step. You can’t make others happy, if you don’t know what it is either!
And yes, everybody hurts eachother eventually. Thank god, if people didn’t nobody would learn anything! And people would stop valueing things like respect and love. Seriously, you can’t be happy If you aren’t hurt regularly. It matters how you handle those situation, and for that, well you neet to be hurt.
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alcove87 wrote:
well, maybe even if your life seems pointless, perhaps you were meant to impact someone else’s life in some small and seamingly insignificant way. And that person impacts another and so on, and so on. And in the end, the world was a better place, just because you were there. :)
i see where you are going with this but i feel ive spent probably the best part of my life catering for others and its left me feeling empty.so in my heart i dont think this will work for me,but thanks for the advice
linuxya wrote:
Just doing stuff is pointless. Sit down and brainstorm a list of directions and possibilities. Share your list with people you trust. Direction gives life meaning. You won’t find “meaning” anywhere on its down. You create meaning in what you do. What meaning does exercise have? If it slims you down, makes you feel healthy and confident, encourages you to run races, bike races, socialize, get to know people, then it has a lot of meaning and value. See… direction is everything.Stop worrying about making the right decision. There is no meaning to life. There is no right choice. You just choose something and work at it. When it doesn’t work out, you try something else. Focus on the interactions with people, focus on the positive things you learn, experience. Enjoy as many experiences and relationships as you can.
thank you .i realised this a couple of days ago when i was going to hop on a plane adn just leave for another country.i have this vision of me trying everything i ever wanted to try and BECOME A NEW ME and then it struck me! cant i do that right now wherei am ? running somewhere else isnt going to change me,onlyme can change me
but the crunch is .i honestly dont know if i want to change.i just feel sad adn listless
EoinStidz wrote:
Ya bud. I’m not really sure if anyone knwos what the hell theyre doing. But sometimes it’s fun right? :P Sometimes its not. do you mean in like an existentialist way? or in a . sad way?
sometimes its fun.but its been a while since then….
Depression comes from inaction.
You’ll feel better just taking action. Making plans. Talking to people.
Waiting around makes you passive. Being passive makes you depressed. Being depressed makes you wonder what the point of anything is. As there is no point to anything, you just end up sitting around feeling crappy.
Go out and change your life. Make some mistakes. If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not living!
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linuxya wrote:
Depression comes from inaction.
You’ll feel better just taking action. Making plans. Talking to people.
Waiting around makes you passive. Being passive makes you depressed. Being depressed makes you wonder what the point of anything is. As there is no point to anything, you just end up sitting around feeling crappy.
Go out and change your life. Make some mistakes. If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not living!
this work for you?
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linuxya wrote:
Depression comes from inaction.You’ll feel better just taking action. Making plans. Talking to people. Waiting around makes you passive. Being passive makes you depressed. Being depressed makes you wonder what the point of anything is. As there is no point to anything, you just end up sitting around feeling crappy.Go out and change your life. Make some mistakes. If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not living!
this work for you?
have you tried this before?
Absolutely.
When I felt really sorry for myself (my wife died in January 07) I marched myself down to the local sports shop and signed up for a 5k running group. It led me on an incredible journey of learning to run (I was fat) and I ended up running a half marathon a year later, biking 360k over a weekend, making new friends in a bike group, etc. I joined a movie group and ended up finding my current girlfriend who is so different from other women I dated after my wife died that I feel I am the luckiest man alive. I can’t believe how much my life has changed… all because I took regular little steps to DO stuff.
When I sit around, I feel like crap. When I act, I feel great.
linuxya wrote:
Absolutely.
When I felt really sorry for myself (my wife died in January 07) I marched myself down to the local sports shop and signed up for a 5k running group. It led me on an incredible journey of learning to run (I was fat) and I ended up running a half marathon a year later, biking 360k over a weekend, making new friends in a bike group, etc. I joined a movie group and ended up finding my current girlfriend who is so different from other women I dated after my wife died that I feel I am the luckiest man alive. I can’t believe how much my life has changed… all because I took regular little steps to DO stuff.
When I sit around, I feel like crap. When I act, I feel great.
point taken.Im gonna take your advice.sometimes i justlet it all get on top of me.i hate asking for help as well so i tend to go off half baked sometimes.in light of what you have gone thru,i probably dont have much to complain about.
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