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i feel so sad.

can someone cheer me up?

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (3 minutes after post)
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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Better?

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (8 minutes after post)

that was funny. but i still feel =( oh and i’m a girl

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

XxLove0rHat3xX wrote:
lol nante that was funny. i hope it cheered him/her (sorry don’t know ur gender) upbut how do u put youtube vids in a reply?

Its easy but a little hard to explain…

[Youtube: put URL here ]

like that.

Lost! wrote:
that was funny. but i still feel =( oh and i’m a girl

Awww

hmmmm

Well tell me some things you like, and I wont stop till you feel better :D

what made you sad?

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

mmmmmmm. family…

Well i like funny videos and oh yeah, russell peters. :P but i don’t know if i can laugh right now…

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Thats okay thgen,

Do you want to talk about what happend?

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

mmm,i feel like everyone hates me. well, there’s like this voice inside my head telling that my family hates me.

this morning, i asked one of my family members if they want me to stay at home on my sister’s wedding, he said no, and that i can go to work. it’s like i feel that nobody wants me around the house. Like they don’t want me anymore.

I feel sad. And I just think that all relatives hates me. :(

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

i feel so unwanted and so…. useless. and i just hate it. it makes me sad.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (18 minutes after post)

I think everyone feels that ways sometimes, but doubt that it’s true, have you talked to anyone about this?

And how old are you?

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (19 minutes after post)

well, a few but they don;t know what to say. i’m 21 and **** i feel so silly feeling like this. :(

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (23 minutes after post)

i don’t have parents and i’m also very f*cked up now. my whole life’s been so f*cked up/ never was happy. sigh

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Lost! wrote:
well, a few but they don;t know what to say. i’m 21 and **** i feel so silly feeling like this. :(

Thats okay, regardless of how old you are, this is understandable, maybe you should go out with the family, or have a family night of some sort, give everyone a chance to be together, it might make you feel more loved.

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (26 minutes after post)

um, my friend is having exams now. so i don’t wanna bother her. well, my family just thinks im useless. that’s all. i just hate the way they see me. even if i do good, it’s never good. i just feel so much sadness in me that i don’t know what to do.

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (27 minutes after post)

try not to base you happiness so much on other peoples acceptance or wanting of you. you have to be happy because of YOU. think of all the things you have done in your life to help others. seriously. those moments that you made them smile, thats what being happy is. basically im saying just try to realize things about yourself that you love, and remember no one is perfect but we all have traits that make us who we are and make us..well..US

remember them and use them to define your happiness in your life.

hope this has helped some..

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Braad wrote:
try not to base you happiness so much on other peoples acceptance or wanting of you. you have to be happy because of YOU. think of all the things you have done in your life to help others. seriously. those moments that you made them smile, thats what being happy is. basically im saying just try to realize things about yourself that you love, and remember no one is perfect but we all have traits that make us who we are and make us..well..USremember them and use them to define your happiness in your life.hope this has helped some..

thanks.. i’ll try. when i feel better. being sad and at work is not a good idea. Sighhhhhh

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (31 minutes after post)

how can i stop these voices inside my head? all those negativity? i always feel so weak when i’m around family.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Braad wrote:
try not to base you happiness so much on other peoples acceptance or wanting of you. you have to be happy because of YOU. think of all the things you have done in your life to help others. seriously. those moments that you made them smile, thats what being happy is. basically im saying just try to realize things about yourself that you love, and remember no one is perfect but we all have traits that make us who we are and make us..well..USremember them and use them to define your happiness in your life.hope this has helped some..

I agree.

If you want to stop the negativity, maybe you just need some you time to clear your head.

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walnut tree offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (40 minutes after post)

hmm, Bradd is right.

and i can’t be alone. i will think too much…… and then end up being emo and cry which is a bad thing. =(

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