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Well, now I am 23 years old.

I have been single for 2 and a half years, I think that is right. I am still a virgin and quite frankly I still don’t know how to talk to a girl. Kinda pathetic I think but I don’t know. So I guess this is to anyone who can give me any advice on getting a girlfriend! I would appreciate your replies even though it is a slightly silly topic.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

You need to go somewhere you will be able to meet someone nice. Try volunteering, taking up a new hobby or participate in church social events.

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gibstrac_1985 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
You need to go somewhere you will be able to meet someone nice. Try volunteering, taking up a new hobby or participate in church social events.

well I am still in college so it is kinda hard to start a new hobby and I am not exactly a church goer but I will find something. I am making excuses. thanks for the advice.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Yeah, don’t look at the bar.

Try looking around in your classes. Sit beside someone new and say hello. Try the old “Do you want to study together?” line. Or “Could I copy some of the class notes from you?”

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gibstrac_1985 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Yeah, don’t look at the bar.

Try looking around in your classes. Sit beside someone new and say hello. Try the old “Do you want to study together?” line. Or “Could I copy some of the class notes from you?”

lol, your hilarious, right now I am screwed but maybe next quarter. We are a small school I have 4 people in my class and the best looking one is my cousin. lol 2 of them are married and the other well, not a chance. Thanks!

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

What kind of school do you go to?

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cds offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

I feel ya man. I’m 21 years old and i’m still a virgin myself. Not being self-conscious usually is the first step into anything.

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gibstrac_1985 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
What kind of school do you go to?

I am at North Georgia Technical College, some of the classes are large but some arent all according to what time of year really.

cds wrote:
I feel ya man. I’m 21 years old and i’m still a virgin myself. Not being self-conscious usually is the first step into anything.

What do you mean by self-conscious? just wondering

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 20 minutes after post)

cds wrote:
I feel ya man. I’m 21 years old and i’m still a virgin myself. Not being self-conscious usually is the first step into anything.

What do you mean by self-conscious? just wondering[/quote]

what he means i think is that your thinking to much about it,
and unfortunately the only way to get a girlfriend is to ask them out, because they will not ask you out, it makes them look desperate apparently. so you have to ask.
don’t think about it just do it. you’ve no idea. most girls like the idea of corrupting innocence just don’t tell them straight off that your a virgin tell them when the topic comes up.

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ezethjame offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 week after post)

am interested in u

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8 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

Virgin guys are hard to find, and soo much more desired than you may think! Just feel proud that you’re one of those.

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