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You gotta figure out why she is blowing you off. If the women around you are like those around me, then they don’t tell you anything directly unless you demand it, especially when they are upset or angry. Just try and sit and talk with her in person. Just you and her. Figure out whats bothering her and what you can do to fix it. Sometimes people go through rough times and become reclusive too so don’t assume your the one at fault. Just talk to her! It’s what friends do.

Quit bieng a *ussy. You will be one of the girls again, don’t worry. Just give her space, and start seeing another girl who peaks your interest, that should get her attention, if not, dont worry about it. But whatever you do, there is no need to go over to her and say anything, dont sound like a punk. Girls dont like that too much. Quit walking around with your purse in tow, start walking around with your sack again.

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Maybe she has a boyfriend and she is blowing you off because he would not like it? So talk to her. I agree with Mr. Peterson. Take her to coffee or something like that and ask her “what’s up?” You are friends right? So friends should be able to talk anytime.

You already know my opinion on this one. :P

Are you just friends with this girl or are you hoping for more? Do you have other good friends (guys though) that if they did the same thing as her you would be this upset and bothered?

Sometimes people are flaky but not harmful. That’s me. I’m very forgetful; however, I’ve had some friends where it seemed like I was pushing them away only for them to realize I have a few kinks and things came up. There may be more to the story, so blowing up in front of her and questioning her intensely will cause her to be defensive and get upset about the approach. If you try a polite method and just ask her what’s up it will be more accepting and she’ll probably explain.

The big question I have though is do you have feelings for her? Seeing as how enraged you are it would hint that there might be more in your mind than what was written. If so, maybe you should let her know how you really feel…

Don’t let chances just walk away…

I have a similar problem and she knows I have liked her. We talk and then as soon as I ask her to hang out she blows me off.. she just completely ignores it. Then when we go back to talking the messages are short one liners. It really upsets me too and I know how you feel about wanting to explode and tell her how upset it makes you, but you should hold back. Take some time to cool down and think it over. You can tell her it upsets you but just leave it alone don’t go crazy. The best thing to do if it continues would be to just ask her why.

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N Find Out Where This Mixed Up Story Began Exactly
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