Love help: The girl I fell in love with will never be mine…took me a little while to realize but I finally see it. - Help.com

Well, I had s situation similar to yours…

I got used to it, and got used to the idea that she won’t be mine…in time the feeling disappeared….

Oh I was in a similar situation too. Like 2511 said, you get used to it. It hurts for a while, of course, but after that, the feelings do subside, or they decrease.

What do I do when she calls me or texts me. 100% ignoring her just makes it even more awkward.

Well, why do you say you can have her?

And why does she send you texts and stuff?

She wants to “just be friends.” But I can’t do that. She texts and calls me a lot wanting to hang out or wanting help with something. But I can’t do it anymore! Ah!

Well, tell her that you can’t be just friends…or be friends…

I’ve told her how I feel about her. But she just acts like I can IGNORE the way I feel and be her friend.

Well, if you stop being her friend, you might end up regretting it…

It’d be great if you could control yourself and be friends with her, without making any illusions…

But if you rly want to break the bond, it’s like any other bond..just break it…

I’ve been trying to be her friend for 2 months. But every day was torture - every guy she talked to made me jealous, every time we hung out made me even more attracted to her. I need to break the bond but I gotta figure out how to word it to her… to tell her. Sorry if I’m repetitive - I really appreciate your help 2511

Don’t worry, I just want to make sure you’ve analyzed it…

Well, a solution could be ignoring her, she’d realize that you don’t want her around and that you aren’t paying attention…

Another way could be having a serious talk with, in a quite place, so that you can’t talk your mind, and tell her how you feel about all this…

Another simple way is to tell her that you don’t want to be friends anymore, and then do the first thing…

But anyways, I still recommend you to get over jealousness, don’t make any illusions and remain friends…that’s always great…

If you rly want to take something good from this, if I were you, I’d pick the second one, since it seems you two have a good communication…

I’ve to go now, duty calls…hope this helps you