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what do you do when you feel like no one understands you?

i feel like that for a long time and it hurts so much inside. no one understands the pain i go through right now. no one understands how i’m an angry person with a terrible temper. no one understands how i become this person. someone told me not to blame family, but they are the ones who made me who i am today. i just feel full of sorrow and hurt, and anger.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Find someone who understands you, change the way you are, or get used to it…

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Noone understands me and i’m starting to wonder if it is something to do with how I express myself

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1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Anger is always the easiest path - be weak if you wish.

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GB | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

what point is it you would like to get across?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

You seem to be depressed, maybe you should search for professional help.
Maybe just talking with a person who understands your problems may help you really much.
Unfortunately many people cant or dont want to understand what it means to have anger problems, depression etc. It is like a sickness, just that people overlook it easily. Try to talk seriously with friends about it, maybe to a Counselor or someone.
I doubt that talking with your family would be any use, as it seems they had some influence in your depression - negative influence but you need to get help.

Well, even if you family is at fault, even if you can blame someone, it wont help you, or make you feel better.

It would be the best if you are able to get a therepist, psychiatrist or psycholigst, someone you can talk to and who sees depression as a real problem - which it is.

I whish you all luck, things will get better. Keep on going.

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Anger is always the easiest path - be weak if you wish.

Not always, if someone is being angry with me I walk away untill they are willing to talk more calmly, I don’t react well to anger at all, I hate it.
Maybe thats part of the problem, you need to calm down a little on order to get yourself heard

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (49 minutes after post)

You would need to give yourself some space away from those that make you upset. If it is in your family, maybe you would need to stop trying for a while. The more you try, the more they might keep their distance (assuming they will). But don’t give up.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 hours, 29 minutes after post)

thanks guys for the reply. I feel better now after i calmed down.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

That’s great =)

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

How old are you? And what’s your zodiac sign? (Or if you don’t know, tell me the date [month and day] you were born. It will tell me how to help you.

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