Love help: i want a guy to like/notice/love/date me and i want him to ask me to the christmas dance and go on a date with me what should i do? - Help.com

strike up a couple of conversations with him and if these seem successful a little closer the time bring up the xmas dance and go from there

WOW! Maybe you need to take those steps one at a time?

Olly is right–strike up a conversation about something that you have in common, and see how it goes. If you communicate well with him and seem to have some commonalities, then he’ll notice you.

Once he notices you, maybe some ongoing communication will develop and he’ll look forward to seeing you, and then you will be able to say that he likes you.

Once liking is achieved, then maybe a date is in order—a movie, a walk in the park, seats at a sports competition at your school.

And if that turns out to be fun, maybe going to the Christmas dance with you will be a no-brainer.

Love? That’s about 200 steps down the road — after you’ve dated awhile and know each other very, very well. “Love” in the early stages of a relationship is really only attraction or infatuation, what they used to call “puppy love.”

Do they still say “puppy love”?

Anyway, good luck with step one.

Well if he doesnt ask you try asking him if he doesnt want to date you then ask if you guys should be friends and try going out later in the year after he knows you more

is he on the internet
if so tease him :)

Is all that you want at the same time? Can it be step by step?

littlenick wrote:
Is all that you want at the same time? Can it be step by step?

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