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ef my life.

theres been so much goin on lately.
the same “friends” that didnt want me going to a different high school and cried and we always hung out. yeah well they dont talk to me anymore and dont wanna hang out with me and said im a *****. thers only about 5 ppl left that stil talk to me.
im in high school
in search of a job
it started off with me agreeing to pay for my riding lessons on my own 160-200 a month cuz my parents couldnt afford it anymore.
i have to pay for softball too.
including tournaments, batting cages, pitching
instructor, team trainer, equipment etc
i have to buy stuff for riding
get money to buy friends and family xmas presents. my parents most importantly.
i wanna make money and give it to them for xmas
but i know they wouldnt take it.
those are my most serious issues
my next issue is
the guy i really really like. and he knows i like him
he trusted me enough to tel me who he likes.
turns out its one of my best friends
he told me it was ok to tell her so i did
they dont really know each other but he really likes her.
so im suckin up my pride and being a good friend and trying to get her to talk to him and get to know him.
i want him to be happy.
and i want to be a good friend
but why is this so hard for me?
he said he knew shed never like him and he didnt even know why i liked him. and we have so much in common but he just doesnt see it.
and it sucks cuz i would do almost anything to be with him.
i told him why i liked him. that he was a great guy. hes nice. funny and can always make me laugh and that he was sweet. and that there was sumthin different about him then other guys but in a good way.

idk why this is so hard for me. my friends mean everything to me. and i dont wanna be selfish. its just theres sumthing about him…

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hurt2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (32 minutes after post)

You sound so sweet, its nice to know that you want to be there for you friends and family, but first and foremost you need to make yourself happy first, maybe going out and looking for a part time job would be nice and not just for buying family and friends gifts, making something or even giving them $10.00 gift cards on the birthdays (so you are not spending all your money at once and just making them cards or services like will wash car or help with homework. Your main concern is taking care of your extra activities and getting the part time job to pay for your lessons and equipment and lastly the friend you like and your best friend, just be there for him and if he wants to seek out your friend let him, just know that there are other guys that will come across your path in the future.

You sound so sweet, its nice to know that you want to be there for you friends and family, but first and foremost you need to make yourself happy first, maybe going out and looking for a part time job would be nice and not just for buying family and friends gifts, making something or even giving them $10.00 gift cards on the birthdays (so you are not spending all your money at once and just making them cards or services like will wash car or help with homework. Your main concern is taking care of your extra activities and getting the part time job to pay for your lessons and equipment and lastly the friend you like and your best friend, just be there for him and if he wants to seek out your friend let him, just know that there are other guys that will come across your path in the future.

xxokatelynoxx 0 #
US | 12 months ago (34 minutes after post)

i know there will be other guys. but im a stupid freshman that thinks hes the perfect guy. we have so much in commn and he just doesnt see it. and it kills me to help him get together with her. but i told him i wanted him to be happy and i told him how hard it is for me. he just doesnt really get what im goin through.

i know there will be other guys. but im a stupid freshman that thinks hes the perfect guy. we have so much in commn and he just doesnt see it. and it kills me to help him get together with her. but i told him i wanted him to be happy and i told him how hard it is for me. he just doesnt really get what im goin through.

Help me with: im confused bout who i like.

hurt2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (36 minutes after post)

You said it yourself, I once was a stupid freshman and I know how you feel, I don’t want to give you bad advice, but do you have any other male friends that you may want to hang out with?

You said it yourself, I once was a stupid freshman and I know how you feel, I don't want to give you bad advice, but do you have any other male friends that you may want to hang out with?

xxokatelynoxx 0 #
US | 12 months ago (37 minutes after post)

all my guy friends from my old skool are gone. thers only like 5 ppl that stll talk to me. and i dont really have many other guy friends at skool. besides a sophmore which i know thers no chance there.

all my guy friends from my old skool are gone. thers only like 5 ppl that stll talk to me. and i dont really have many other guy friends at skool. besides a sophmore which i know thers no chance there.

Help me with: im confused bout who i like.

hurt2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Why is there no chance? Is he taken?

Why is there no chance? Is he taken?

xxokatelynoxx 0 #
US | 12 months ago (41 minutes after post)

no like were friends but not like wicked close. and just idk. i like the other kid so much and i just cant stop liking him that easy. i liked the same kid all of 7th grade and all of 8th grade. and he never gave me a chance and he knew i liked him to :[

no like were friends but not like wicked close. and just idk. i like the other kid so much and i just cant stop liking him that easy. i liked the same kid all of 7th grade and all of 8th grade. and he never gave me a chance and he knew i liked him to :[

Help me with: im confused bout who i like.

hurt2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Even more reason to try and forget him, you have tried to let him know and that tells me that was his nice way of telling you he doesn’t want to go there with you.

Even more reason to try and forget him, you have tried to let him know and that tells me that was his nice way of telling you he doesn't want to go there with you.

xxokatelynoxx 0 #
US | 12 months ago (50 minutes after post)

well the thing is at my school theres more girls then guys. go figure. but its just my friend the one he likes, amanda, thought that he liked me and wanted me to ask him out. and i told her no cuz i knew he didnt lik eme but i didnt know who he liked. idk he flirts with me sumtimes. and the day after i had my last boyfriend asked me out he was flirtin with me non stop
but then it just stopped. and i dont know. i feel like i need him

well the thing is at my school theres more girls then guys. go figure. but its just my friend the one he likes, amanda, thought that he liked me and wanted me to ask him out. and i told her no cuz i knew he didnt lik eme but i didnt know who he liked. idk he flirts with me sumtimes. and the day after i had my last boyfriend asked me out he was flirtin with me non stop but then it just stopped. and i dont know. i feel like i need him

Help me with: im confused bout who i like.

xxokatelynoxx 0 #
US | 12 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

i just dont see why im never good enough :\

i just dont see why im never good enough :\

Help me with: im confused bout who i like.

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