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So I just got out of a 3 yr relationship a month ago and I sort of figured that she had cheated on me because of how far she had been pushing me away. Well today after no contact for a couple of weeks her friend posts on my facebook wall “you know Brittany cheated on u.” I don’t understand the purpose in the girl doing that. They were probably together when she posted it. By the way I’m 19 and my ex is 17. I just don’t understand y she wants to keep breaking me down. Even though I suspected it, it was much worse to see it in writing. Now the hurt that was going away is back again. And what’s even more messed up is I still feel like I love her. Any advice? Please help.

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james_liverpool_uk offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
Southport, L8, GB | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

:( I’m sorry. Love hurts often, and when something like that happens, even more so. Take a deep breath and keep moving on. I’m sure you love her, but love isn’t enough unfortunately. Yes, they probably did it together to hurt you, and that suggests that there’s no future in her for you. I’m so sorry. :(

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (19 minutes after post)

If she’s willing to be with a friend and do that to you, ask yourself is she really worth your love anyway, that was a cruel move and gutless in my opinion if you love someone at least be up front and honest with them.

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