Love help: A girl I love might love someone else.

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A girl I love might love someone else.

She says the relationship between her and him is different then I know. Ive learned she was depressed and was helped out of it, probably by this boy. She acts much nicer and more caring to him than to me, but claims they are not in love. Any idea what I can do? We don’t go out, she doesn’t even acknowledge my feelings for her. She barely even hangs out with me outside of school, infact I have been trying to hang out with her for well over a month and every time shes always busy doing some benign and passive task.

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Sasha101 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Stay friends but move on hon, life is too short , do your own things and go your own way like she seems to be doing.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I don’t know the answer to your particular situation to provide any definitive help. From personal experience, relationships are grounded on mutual trust, respect, and responsibility. Personal relationships vary from case to case. I agree with Sasha that “do your own things” but also be persistent in achieving your goals and choose your goals wisely!

Best wishes

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Its a different when you like someone, you can move on then. I’ve tried to move on again and again but I just can’t. She draws me in, she justs seems so…. sublime, or a word similar to that.

Crisabell 8 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (25 minutes after post)

she likes him no matter how hard u try to ask her .. she`ll deny it she dsnt wana seem like a **** kinda went throught the same **** . like the guy .. liked me alot and i like another guy he makes mee feel happy and he makes me smile . trying to hard .. is bad for u jus relax and chill . dont worry about it cause wuns feelings .. is alredi set on him . and if shes not going out wid u dont bother trying .

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

man ur situation is a bit critical …..my advice is that try a bit to gain her attention everytime u see her and just use ur humour show her some attitude and the last and most important thing is that gals don’t like those guys who do not respect themself so,never loose ur self respect …….all the best man .

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 2 weeks after post)

i m im in the same situation i don’t know what to do

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