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I really don’t know if the baby’s mine.

It might not be.
MIGHT
and if it’s not?
Then it’s my brother’s or she’s an even worse ‘expletive’ than I thought.

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gfhsdfd offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

what it being your brothers isnt bad enough? get a dna test. i actually have a close friend that went through this. he didnt want to take a test because he didnt want to do that to her, then there was legal implications and a judge forced it to see who would play welfare etc, turns out he wasnt the dad.

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Endoftheline offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

The baby hasn’t been born yet, and the situation is really complicated, for one, my brother is dead. And I also can’t really blame her for cheating..

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Genetic testing will settle that.

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

what makes you think it isn’t?

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Endoftheline offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

She told me. She doesn’t know

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

As said, a DNA test will prove it one way or another - but thats after the fact…

Of course, it doesn’t answer what you do now… How do you feel - and what do you want to do? - It was you that pursuaded her to keep the baby in the first place… - an old line says “you reap what you sow”

Actually, does it matter, since, from your last post, you need to sort YOURSELF out before you can even be a part of the childs life - how is that going?

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Endoftheline offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 days, 19 hours after post)

Everything else is fine. And actually, this all came up from that. ‘Honesty is key in any good relationship’ and all that crap. I don’t even think I want to know.

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (5 days, 15 hours after post)

then continue to be honest…

If she is truely sorry, and if you can forgive, then continue

If she isn’t, or you cannot forgive, then the relationship is doomed…

Do you agree?

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

wait and im the foolish one? this is pretty foolish

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Endoftheline offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

How is it?

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

cause they do make things called rubbers and your pretty foolish to get into a situation like this if she cant be trusted which apparently she cant cause your on here asking if te baby is yours or not PRETTY FOOLISH on your part and hers

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Endoftheline offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

I tell you what.
When you grow up, mature, stop trying to blame your problems on others, then, and only then, I might just care if you think that I’m foolish.

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Endoftheline offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

Oh. And condoms aren’t 100% effective, something you should learn because if you spawn the world is gonna be in trouble.

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