get right with God. might be a warning.
calemus wrote:
get right with God. might be a warning.
I do.
I’m Catholic (not stating anything against any other religion), read the bible sometimes and attend church school on Sundays.
I don’t fear anything from God.
So..
Uhm.
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I think it means something else. The end of something in yr life. Maybe u want something to change and u havent done anything about it yet. What happens in yr dreams exactly.
Die
To dream that you die in your dream, symbolizes inner changes, transformation, self-discovery and positive development that is happening within you or in your life. Although such a dreams may bring about feelings of fear and anxiety, it is no cause for alarm and is often considered a positive symbol. Dreams of experiencing your own death usually means that big changes are ahead for you. You are moving on to new beginnings and leaving the past behind. These changes does not necessarily imply a negative turn of events. Metaphorically, dying can be seen as an end or a termination to your old ways and habits. So, dying does not always mean a physical death, but an ending of something.
On a negative note, to dream that you die may represent involvement in deeply painful relationships or unhealthy, destructive behaviors. You may feeling depressed or feel strangled by a situation or person in your waking life. Perhaps your mind is preoccupied with someone who is terminally ill or dying. Alternatively, you may be trying to get out of some obligation, responsibility or other situation.
To see someone dying in your dream, signifies that your feelings for that person are dead or that a significant change/loss is occurring in your relationship with that person. Alternatively, you may want to repress that aspect of yourself that is represented by the dying person
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictio…
Angel-T wrote:
I think it means something else. The end of something in yr life. Maybe u want something to change and u havent done anything about it yet. What happens in yr dreams exactly.
I die.
Like, being stabbed or shot out of random.
A few times, in my dreams, I was at school, I was stabbed and shoved down the stairs.
Ahaha.
beaumoon80 wrote:
Die To dream that you die in your dream, symbolizes inner changes, transformation, self-discovery and positive development that is happening within you or in your life. Although such a dreams may bring about feelings of fear and anxiety, it is no cause for alarm and is often considered a positive symbol. Dreams of experiencing your own death usually means that big changes are ahead for you. You are moving on to new beginnings and leaving the past behind. These changes does not necessarily imply a negative turn of events. Metaphorically, dying can be seen as an end or a termination to your old ways and habits. So, dying does not always mean a physical death, but an ending of something. On a negative note, to dream that you die may represent involvement in deeply painful relationships or unhealthy, destructive behaviors. You may feeling depressed or feel strangled by a situation or person in your waking life. Perhaps your mind is preoccupied with someone who is terminally ill or dying. Alternatively, you may be trying to get out of some obligation, responsibility or other situation. To see someone dying in your dream, signifies that your feelings for that person are dead or that a significant change/loss is occurring in your relationship with that person. Alternatively, you may want to repress that aspect of yourself that is represented by the dying personhttp://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/
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Is there a possibility of feelings I want to express but can’t.
Like the feeling of saying something you would never say unless you were dying and it wouldn’t be awkward anymore?
=o
It’s just dreams, they don’t mean anything. I use to dream of dying and other terrible things happening, they don’t come true.
Not really, again, it’s probably symbolizing something, or a curiosity. I wouldn’t be too worried because you don’t want to fixate on it and turn it into anxiety. That’s not fun.
When I was five or six years old I dreamt about dying most nights — I’d always wake up crying. If I had to guess I’d think it had more to do with internalizing the perspective of adults that I was a fragile little creature than really needing from the inside to work with emotional issues regarding life and mortality.
Mushroom8 wrote:
Not really, again, it’s probably symbolizing something, or a curiosity. I wouldn’t be too worried because you don’t want to fixate on it and turn it into anxiety. That’s not fun.
Would me telling you I already have Emotional Anxiety do anything?
Would that change anything, or just no?
To dream of your own death may also suggest that you are desperately trying to escape the stress and demands of daily life. So you need to start taking it easy and just relax more. Take lots of deep breaths and try not take life so seriously.
Some scientists believe that some dreaming is your concious brain communication with your subconcious brain trying to figure things out, and because life is mainly symbols etc it’s your brain trying to figure out what’s wrong and trying to help fix it and make you feel at ease again. Maybe you brain is trying to say that it want’s this anxiety part to go away, depending on how much this anxiety affects your life, and start fresh free from anxiety. Or it could be something on your mind, or it could be a load of poop. It’s hard to tell unless you are a DR in the subject.
Angel-T wrote:
To dream of your own death may also suggest that you are desperately trying to escape the stress and demands of daily life. So you need to start taking it easy and just relax more. Take lots of deep breaths and try not take life so seriously.
It’s easy to tell someone with anxiety to relax and not take life too seriously, but actually going through with it is a different matter. Anxiety is a constant battle and will put strain on anyone emotionally. Because anxiety is a very psychological thing that’s maybe why it’s coming into your dreams.
Mushroom8 wrote:
Some scientists believe that some dreaming is your concious brain communication with your subconcious brain trying to figure things out, and because life is mainly symbols etc it’s your brain trying to figure out what’s wrong and trying to help fix it and make you feel at ease again. Maybe you brain is trying to say that it want’s this anxiety part to go away, depending on how much this anxiety affects your life, and start fresh free from anxiety. Or it could be something on your mind, or it could be a load of poop. It’s hard to tell unless you are a DR in the subject.
Angel-T wrote:
To dream of your own death may also suggest that you are desperately trying to escape the stress and demands of daily life. So you need to start taking it easy and just relax more. Take lots of deep breaths and try not take life so seriously.
It’s easy to tell someone with anxiety to relax and not take life too seriously, but actually going through with it is a different matter. Anxiety is a constant battle and will put strain on anyone emotionally. Because anxiety is a very psychological thing that’s maybe why it’s coming into your dreams.
It’s a pain.
Really.
Most people just can and do things from fear of the outcome, but me, oh gosh.
It’s anything really.
It irritates and worries me so much that I just have panic attacks repeatedly…
If I did something wrong or I thought about how awkwardly I said something, it replays in my mind for the whole day and just gets to me.
Having a test in front of me… doesn’t work out sometimes.
I remember a day I had an anxiety attack when I had to get a test done and I has like crouched in my chair trying to breathe with my hands over my head. It scared my friend.
I can’t actually ever calm down. For example, right now, I’m just panicky.
Yeah, I know exactly how you feel. I can’t remember the last time I felt calm, I get heart palpitations, and my sleep is really affected. And stressing how all this affects your body makes things even worse! It helps to either talk it over with a professional, psychiatrist or someone who specialises in CBT (cognitive behaviourial therapy), or to do something that helps with your self confidence. When you have more self esteem you feel like you can take on more and can deal with anything that comes your way so therefore you feel less vunerable and stressed. Do you feel self conscious at all? Scared of something happening in public, fearing it will make you look stupid? That’s social anxiety, more common than you think. Do you have problems with your self confidence?
Mushroom8 wrote:
Yeah, I know exactly how you feel. I can’t remember the last time I felt calm, I get heart palpitations, and my sleep is really affected. And stressing how all this affects your body makes things even worse! It helps to either talk it over with a professional, psychiatrist or someone who specialises in CBT (cognitive behaviourial therapy), or to do something that helps with your self confidence. When you have more self esteem you feel like you can take on more and can deal with anything that comes your way so therefore you feel less vunerable and stressed. Do you feel self conscious at all? Scared of something happening in public, fearing it will make you look stupid? That’s social anxiety, more common than you think. Do you have problems with your self confidence?
Yes.
I have VERY VERY low self-esteem.
To be honest, I call myself fat, because I’m not as skinny as I would ever like to be and I have.. ‘curves’.
I’m 14 and 143lb. -_____- I’m very body conscious…
*sigh*
It makes me aggravated when skinny nice people complain that they are fat and pull at themselves to try to find some flabby skin. When I’m standing there thinking “yeah, I have a lot of that.”
asdfghjkl.
Social Anxiety. Probably a bit.
Whenever I go out, I look around constantly.
I tripped at school once and it irritated me the whole day and I lost A LOT of sleep and I worried about it for a few days.
Sometimes, when I worry, my leg just starts throbbing in pain.
x____x
Gahhh.
So what if you’re not skinny. Are you healthy? You probably think people are not going to like you because you are not as skinny as them or you won’t get the guys, but there are bigger girls out there who look fabulous and do get the guys and have lots of friends. It’s all about confidence and body language.
If you are not happy with yourself, then instead of sitting about and moping about it you have to do something about it. Nothing will happen without any change. Doing any kind of sport will not only change the way you look, but will increase your self esteem because you feel like you are achieving something and also will release endorphins into your body, the body’s feel good hormone :) Easier said than done, but you just gotta think, I’m doing this for me, sod everyone else. The people going on about how they are fat when they are not are just insecure and wanting attention, it’s nothing to do with how skinny they are. They could be the skinniest person on the planet and still say that. they’re just saying ‘look at me, please, pay me attention’. It’s a destructive social thing but with time and confidence you’ll learn to either ignore it, or tell them to be quiet and do their attention seeking elsewhere.
Is there any sport you enjoy?
Also, joining a club can be a good chance to make new friends, which is good for the soul. If you are the person in the picture, I think you look lovely, definitely not obese so your health is not an issue. It might feel daft but if you walk tall with a smile on your face it’s amazing how different people perceive you.
Mushroom8 wrote:
So what if you’re not skinny. Are you healthy? You probably think people are not going to like you because you are not as skinny as them or you won’t get the guys, but there are bigger girls out there who look fabulous and do get the guys and have lots of friends. It’s all about confidence and body language.If you are not happy with yourself, then instead of sitting about and moping about it you have to do something about it. Nothing will happen without any change. Doing any kind of sport will not only change the way you look, but will increase your self esteem because you feel like you are achieving something and also will release endorphins into your body, the body’s feel good hormone :) Easier said than done, but you just gotta think, I’m doing this for me, sod everyone else. The people going on about how they are fat when they are not are just insecure and wanting attention, it’s nothing to do with how skinny they are. They could be the skinniest person on the planet and still say that. they’re just saying ‘look at me, please, pay me attention’. It’s a destructive social thing but with time and confidence you’ll learn to either ignore it, or tell them to be quiet and do their attention seeking elsewhere.Is there any sport you enjoy?Also, joining a club can be a good chance to make new friends, which is good for the soul. If you are the person in the picture, I think you look lovely, definitely not obese so your health is not an issue. It might feel daft but if you walk tall with a smile on your face it’s amazing how different people perceive you.
I’ve tried to do something about it, but my mom put me down constantly telling me it’s not going to change anything or I’m not going anywhere anyways. So, that just made me give up.
I eat healthy yes.
I’m not good at any sport.
I prefer drawing and such. Those are my great sports; if you could call them that.
Nothing big really happens where I live.
Football. Wrestling. Cheer-leading (0___o I want to like strangler those kinds of people most of the time, sorry).
Ehh.
That’s about it.
If I had a great neighbour that was my age, I would go for walks and exercise.
There is no-one in my neighbourhood.
I smile, a lot.
But sometimes it’s just like a ‘okay, i have to fake smile today’.
Nothing wrong with a fake smile :)
Your mother is not doing you any favours behaving like that. Although I believe there is two sides to every story. If you want to change how you feel then you are going to have to ignore your mother. She was probably like you at her age, and this is her way of releasing her anger. She just wants you to feel as rubbish as she does. Is there maybe anything you two can do together? Why not go for a walk and chat about things.
And, doing sport isn’t about wether you are good at it or not. That is irrelevant. It’s about getting out, doing any exercise, just getting out and about. You’ve made an excuse as to why you are not doing anything about it, ” if I had a great neighbour…” but it’s up to you to make the change. If you continue to blame everything on anything, and continuously making excuses, you will just end up the way you are now forever. I see you want to change. You are still young enough to do something about it. Yes, it will be harder without the support from your mother, but you can get support from friends, or if you want to talk to a psychiatrist that will help too. You can get info from any doctors surgery.
It’s 2.30am here, so it’s about time I’m asleep. I hope I was of some help and good luck in whatever happens. Please don’t give up on your life. It’s your life, and you have the power to create it into anything you want it to be. Sounds mad and maybe hard to believe now. But, anything worth having in life is hard work, but there isn’t anything that can describe how you will feel once you make the change. It won’t happen overnight, but the process will not only may you feel better in the long run, but will make you a stronger person able to take on anything that comes her way ;)
Mushroom8 wrote:
Nothing wrong with a fake smile :) Your mother is not doing you any favours behaving like that. Although I believe there is two sides to every story. If you want to change how you feel then you are going to have to ignore your mother. She was probably like you at her age, and this is her way of releasing her anger. She just wants you to feel as rubbish as she does. Is there maybe anything you two can do together? Why not go for a walk and chat about things.And, doing sport isn’t about wether you are good at it or not. That is irrelevant. It’s about getting out, doing any exercise, just getting out and about. You’ve made an excuse as to why you are not doing anything about it, ” if I had a great neighbour…” but it’s up to you to make the change. If you continue to blame everything on anything, and continuously making excuses, you will just end up the way you are now forever. I see you want to change. You are still young enough to do something about it. Yes, it will be harder without the support from your mother, but you can get support from friends, or if you want to talk to a psychiatrist that will help too. You can get info from any doctors surgery.It’s 2.30am here, so it’s about time I’m asleep. I hope I was of some help and good luck in whatever happens. Please don’t give up on your life. It’s your life, and you have the power to create it into anything you want it to be. Sounds mad and maybe hard to believe now. But, anything worth having in life is hard work, but there isn’t anything that can describe how you will feel once you make the change. It won’t happen overnight, but the process will not only may you feel better in the long run, but will make you a stronger person able to take on anything that comes her way ;)
My mother and I really don’t get on terms anymore. She read a page I had written about her in my diary. Just ‘picked it up & it was on that page’ thing. That was about last year when she called me “a failure, told me to go away and I wasn’t going to get anywhere in life. just sit on my *** and do nothing”. But, I got over that quickly because I really didn’t care what she had to say to me from that point.
My mother wouldn’t take me to the doctor…
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