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Question for the guys!

If an average looking girl sent you a LOVE NOTE with her number what would you do/who would you feel? Would that make you ignore her? Or would u contact her? Lets say that you don’t know her personally and that you have never talked. Only seen her around. The age involved would be 20-25.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 123 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Depends. Does she have brains? And I mean big, huge, brains that almost fall out of her blouse?

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

If you are single, give it a shot. Looks dont matter. If you like her when you get to know her, she will be gorgeous no matter her outward appearance.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 123 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

I like brains! :(.

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Yes, brains, and a deep soul?

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Girl23 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

So I for example liked you (just average looking girl), and you knew it, would you feel I was chasing you if I came over and talked to u having never spoken to u before? (Imagine a college setting)

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1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

If the girl wasn’t the guys type he might ignore her…

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james_liverpool_uk offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
Southport, L8, GB | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

To be honest, if I wasn’t in a relationship at the time, it would make my day. I would definitely be curious who was so interested in me, I would certainly give it a go. Maybe I’m just shallow?

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kazb36 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 10 minutes after post)

i like james answ it would make my day. and if i was single i would go for it

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 hours, 32 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Depends. Does she have brains? And I mean big, huge, brains that almost fall out of her blouse?

You know how we write “lol” all the time? Littlenick that time I really did laugh out loud!

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hey...iknowyou offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 hours, 31 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t ignore but I doubt very much I’d contact her. At that age a person should be able to approach another person to talk to them, instead of sending them a note like might happen in their early teens. I like confident girls, sending a note like that would tell me that she is not very confident at all.

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1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

:)

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

I would seriously recommend you actually going up to the guy rather than sending him a love note. At that age, guys prefer the person rather than a note. And guys LOVE IT when girls are interested in them, no matter what they look like. Just give it go and be a confident as you can. Add in a little ego and you never know. The guy, whoever he is, just might give you a chance.

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