I wrote this a year ago, maybe for this reason, to pass it on to another.
Soul mates
As a child you hear tales of a soul mate, a person whose soul is the other half of yours, a soul that becomes connected to you and is destined to find you again and again until the end of time. Through adolescence you grasp on to the idea of a soul mate, believing you will someday find the one for you. But after much heartache and many rivers of tears, this notion you’ve held onto for years begins to fade.
As time goes by, day by day, year after year, you move forward, accepting of your failures and proud of your successes…until that day. This is a day like any other, it begins no differently than yesterday and the days before, but it is a day that will change you forever, a day that the magic and fantasy of a soul mate becomes real. For each of us it happens differently…the holding of eye contact, an introduction, a smile. Regardless of how it began, the moment is unforgettable. It’s a magical moment, frozen in time, the surroundings, the smells, the feeling you felt. The rush of warmth through your body felt exhilarating and new, yet somehow familiar. It was a feeling you imagined time and again…but never this powerful. As butterflies fluttered in your stomach it was an explosion of emotions. Who is this person that can make me feel this way?
As this invisible force draws you to this person you can sense a mutual feeling. A connection unlike any other you’ve experienced before, impossible to resist. You feel a burning, a fire from deep inside, that you can’t ignore. From that first second of encounter this person is there with you, in every thought and action…causing you to smile, laugh, and feel more alive than ever before.
This person becomes a part of you, the true other half of your soul…your soul mate.
And just as you learned as a child, this person is a match made perfectly for your heart, your two souls are connected as one and are destined to come together somewhere in time and you both know it. She thinks of you and you feel it, you drive somewhere and you know she’ll be there, it may seem spooky but it’s all a part of that soulmate connection. It’s truly touching the life of another in the most inspiring way, touching their soul with yours.
Well at first we were just friends and we started feeling more close to each other
we went to fright fest with his family well his father and sister in law. Me and her were hella running and all over each other scared and he was trying to hold on to me the whole time and his father said to me yea i bet you guys will end up getting married sometime in your future because you two have been friends forever it seems and now to this day we are and at that moment i knew we would be together in the future and just the other day he came up to me and asked me to marry him but i havent told him yes or no yet……………
i realy dont know what to do buti do love him and hes been like a bro but now it seems i have and kinda want to choose the other way…..
I knew exp we have so muc in common and get along great
you can say we were childhood cuties ever since we were little
I didn’t know right away. In fact, I didn’t like my husband when I met him in highschool. He was kind out dorky and shy. I was outgoing a bubbly. We became friends and after a long time of talking to him over the phone about the deepest things, I realized that I could never be without him! I don’t beleive in love at first sight, only lust. How can you love someone just because of their looks anyway? Kind of shallow when you think about it…right?
Dont rush.. get a feel for it.. think it over and by all means think it through, talk it through.. you are only limited by your needs and desires.. emotion can’t always be contained but desire and need can.
no, not always at least. There were a few people who i though i would marry because of that immediate connection. i ended up marrying someone from my high school class that i NEVER thought i would be attracted to. we just worked together and so she is now my soul mate, but we work everyday to be that. hope that helps.
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no, not always at least. There were a few people who i though i would marry because of that immediate connection. i ended up marrying someone from my high school class that i NEVER thought i would be attracted to. we just worked together and so she is now my soul mate, but we work everyday to be that. hope that helps.
I agree which is why I say talk about it. There may be a connection but it may not be the one that lasts.
the guy who asked me to marry him wants me to be with him now 24 7 that means live with him and have kids with him now
Idk its kool but weriod
Why is there a rush.. doesn’t that mean you have some discussion ahead of you? Though it sounds romantic, will it be so in 6 months? How will you live, where will you live, and do you feel beyond a reasonable doubt that he’ll always be there for you?
These aren’t questions I wish an answer to, only things for you to consider and discuss with him. For all I know he may be Romeo and you Juliet. Good luck and please remember, if he’s all that you’ll be able to talk to him about anything at all.
idk i think he will not
he says he will
but hes acting weriod latly
and he says we will live in a apartment in Tacoma
I dk why he wants to do all this he just asked me a week ago to marry him
i really dont know what to do
he says i can tell him anything but i amnot sure if i can cuz he tells his bff everything expessually my secrets sometimes and his brother got his gf pregnet with two in one year at 18
his father thinks is kool lol and he says i knew u guyd wud be together
Thank you Barley. I needed to hear all this :)
Well, his father is not the final word here. Do what you feel is best for you. It seems to me your comfort level is not fully there yet so I would consider asking a lot of questions. This is your life also, not just his or his fathers.
One of the lessons I learned a while ago was that when someone really cares for you, they will be just as interested in what you don’t like or are uncomfortable with, as what you do like and makes you feel good about your life. And they will try to make you feel good about your life.
yea
i kindof feel like someof the stuff he says he copys fromwhat i like
like i asked him why he loves me and he said cuz u are you
whats that supose to mean
Don’t know.. are you someone special? I don’t mean that in a sarcastic way, I mean maybe you are special. Maybe you have a way of making those around you feel special.
Well like when my last bf broke up with me all my friends were saying he just lost something special
but they also say they are special because i am friends with them
He also cheated on me with my best friend and she dumped him and he came back to me saying she had her bro threatn me if i didnt go out with her then hed beat him up
idk
he attacked me twice and he wants me so uch he is saying that he loves me and wud kill himself if we broke up
And you have a valid point. What do you think? If he’s done it once it can happen again right?
thats what i said to him and hes like baby please i promise it wont ever happen ever again baby please lol
idk how many times i have heard that sentance
I think I would have a hard time trusting him completely. I feel that any man that raises his hand to a woman is a fool, and if you were that special to him he would never have cheated in the first place.
Maybe it’s time to tell him to move on..
Not to sound crude but you’re better than that. You deserve better than hanging with a guy that would cheat at the drop of a hat. A real man would value you and love you nd hold you above all others.
i tried that today he stormed off and cried like a girl and sobbed so the whole halway could hear him
i felt bad and said fine we can stay but im going to try again but what to say to not make him do that cuz he got huge ppl to stare me down and im hella short and tiny to everyone at my skoo im only 5 ft
So he’s using intimidation to keep you close? Or playing on your sympathy by crying out loud like a girl. Geeeezz..tell the “boy” to grow up and walk away from him. And if he acts funny or strange go straight to the nearest teacher so you’ll feel safe.
lol yea i will
i wish i could just find a guy who wants to be with me and not do all this crappy stuff
Think about this.. the boy wants you to live with him and have kids with him and he’s not even mature enough to talk like an adult about these things. He uses childish tactics to keep you with him or has other bigger people intimidate you. I’d dump him in a heartbeat if I were you but I’m not and it’s your life. You have to deal with it. Personally I think you’re a lot more mature than he is.
yea i am i have noticed that alot
lol
Well good luck with everything. And consider this: what you want out of this relationship is just as important as what he wants, remember this is your life and your future we’re talking about here.
Before you go, can I add you to my friends list?
Thank you, have a great evening..By the way, I’m Billy
im morgan
you too
ill talk to you tomorrow
yes i thought yes i could wake up to that for the rest of my life
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