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answer them “when people stop asking me that’s when.”

I have the same problem as you! When you know what to do, help me! Haha

gfhsdfd wrote:
aye im 23 and single soo… i feel your pain. only i am also asked the bloody ‘when are you going to graduate’ too

yeah i know right.. annoying.

ilovetocookyo wrote:
jimmys has class but its not really what your looking for i recommend the subtle admission of homicidal tendencies as in: “i keep trying to get married, but it never works out and i get left bleaching blood stains out of the furniture”

i think they will look at me as if i’m crazy. they don’t really have humor like that. lol

Say, “No, I don’t. When I do. I’m happy with my life as it is.” At 21 you’re still living. Most people your age aren’t even close to being old enough or mature enough to be married.

yeah i agree Laina! I think 21 is just the beginning. And well, honestly I’m also afraid that I’ll end up being a spinster. :(

ilovetocookyo wrote:
im afriad to sometimes, but once i store the dead hooker safely in the basement, everything seems to clear up

Anonymous wrote:
yeah i agree Laina! I think 21 is just the beginning. And well, honestly I’m also afraid that I’ll end up being a spinster. :(

dead hooker? lol. seriously? how old are you?

uh.. ok.. you’re weird. LOL.

if they’re creeping you out, report them.

what happens when I report them??

A mod will deal with them. Ask them to stop or ban them.

Laina, he’s weird.. eat my soul?? how can you eat my soul?

i m 27 and indian..

i dotn have a gf either..( i mean there are girls in queue..but nogfs yet..:))

dont worry..and believe that u need tell no body nothign abt self.

Anonymous wrote:
Laina, he’s weird.. eat my soul?? how can you eat my soul?

Ignore him and report him. (Click the little red flag next to one of his replies)

ankit wrote:
i m 27 and indian..i dotn have a gf either..( i mean there are girls in queue..but nogfs yet..:))dont worry..and believe that u need tell no body nothign abt self.

girls in queue huh! :P

and **** it how do i report someone!! someone help me report this weirdo! ilovecooko??

Laina1312 wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Laina, he’s weird.. eat my soul?? how can you eat my soul?

Ignore him and report him. (Click the little red flag next to one of his replies)

Anonymous wrote:

ankit wrote:
i m 27 and indian..i dotn have a gf either..( i mean there are girls in queue..but nogfs yet..:))dont worry..and believe that u need tell no body nothign abt self.

girls in queue huh! :P

and **** it how do i report someone!! someone help me report this weirdo! ilovecooko??

try the thumbs down icon to the right of the post..

ankit wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ankit wrote:
i m 27 and indian..i dotn have a gf either..( i mean there are girls in queue..but nogfs yet..:))dont worry..and believe that u need tell no body nothign abt self.

girls in queue huh! :Pand **** it how do i report someone!! someone help me report this weirdo! ilovecooko??

try the thumbs down icon to the right of the post..

What thumbs down icon?

Laina1312 wrote:

ankit wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ankit wrote:
i m 27 and indian..i dotn have a gf either..( i mean there are girls in queue..but nogfs yet..:))dont worry..and believe that u need tell no body nothign abt self.

girls in queue huh! :Pand **** it how do i report someone!! someone help me report this weirdo! ilovecooko??

try the thumbs down icon to the right of the post..

What thumbs down icon?

i thought he/she wanted to report me to the moderator..i m just showing the way..

um there;s no thumbs down icon. i only see a red flag. i already reported. how long does it need to take action?

try the thumbs down icon to the right of the post..[/quote]What thumbs down icon?[/quote]i thought he/she wanted to report me to the moderator..i m just showing the way..[/quote]

A. It wasn’t you.
B. There’s no thumbs down icon, it’s a red flag that you use to report someone. Thumbs are in Yahoo answers.

Anonymous wrote:
um there;s no thumbs down icon. i only see a red flag. i already reported. how long does it need to take action?

Probably til tomorrow or later tonight because there’s no mod online.

Anonymous wrote:
um there;s no thumbs down icon. i only see a red flag. i already reported. how long does it need to take action?

well..u actually cannot ban someone from here..let the mod decide what 2 do..

Timing is upto the mod also.

Laina1312 wrote:

ankit wrote:

try the thumbs down icon to the right of the post..

What thumbs down icon?[/quote]i thought he/she wanted to report me to the moderator..i m just showing the way..[/quote]A. It wasn’t you.B. There’s no thumbs down icon, it’s a red flag that you use to report someone. Thumbs are in Yahoo answers.

Anonymous wrote:
um there;s no thumbs down icon. i only see a red flag. i already reported. how long does it need to take action?

Probably til tomorrow or later tonight because there’s no mod online.[/quote]

red flag is on the chat page..here u use thumbs down icon next to the post..like mine

ohhh.. okay…

Anonymous wrote:
ohhh.. okay…

but donot click on the icon next to mine..or i will get reported..:(

ankit wrote:
red flag is on the chat page..here u use thumbs down icon next to the post..like mine

What browser are you on? Everyone else sees a red flag. Trust me, I’m looking at it.

no worries. i clicked the cuckoo guy.

Laina1312 wrote:

ankit wrote:
red flag is on the chat page..here u use thumbs down icon next to the post..like mine

What browser are you on? Everyone else sees a red flag. Trust me, I’m looking at it.

oops..sorry it is the red flag…from the distance i m looking at it, it looks like a thumbs down.

really sorry..:)

maybe you need glasses ankit.

Anonymous wrote:
maybe you need glasses ankit.

ha ha..exactly what i was thinking…i have a phobeia towards glasses though..:(

ankit wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
maybe you need glasses ankit.

ha ha..exactly what i was thinking…i have a phobeia towards glasses though..:(

Contacts?

Laina1312 wrote:

ankit wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
maybe you need glasses ankit.

ha ha..exactly what i was thinking…i have a phobeia towards glasses though..:(

Contacts?

or may be a biiiiiiiiiigger screen…:)

anyhoooooooooos, wish me luck for tomorrow guys! wanna answer them coolly. lol

Good luck!

thanks Laina! =)

No prob, Bob.

My husband always has a good line for people asking personal questions. He says, “you know that song, ‘Behind Closed Doors’, yeah… that’s one of my favorite songs.” and then he walks away. It’s a line from a movie, but it’s worked every time. People stop asking then.

Tyranid Tamer wrote:
My husband always has a good line for people asking personal questions. He says, “you know that song, ‘Behind Closed Doors’, yeah… that’s one of my favorite songs.” and then he walks away. It’s a line from a movie, but it’s worked every time. People stop asking then.

lol. that’s a good one!