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I feel like im not giving it my all.

im a musician/composer, i feel as if in life, i can never truly open up my mind and unlock the musician inside
i always feel such restraint and i never know how to just break free from this invisible grip that someone has around my neck
Its in everything i do
i continuously procrastinate and i just want to get on with my life but i never have the energy or cant just be able to do it

i know i have so much capability musically (well, everything for that matter)
but i cant take that first step
help me please

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12 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Hey, I relate really well with you except I’m not a musician. I know the feeling of having that grip around your neck. It seems like everyone I know has their life set and moving forward. Not me.. I’m stuck. I can’t get school right, I don’t have any friends, I have no money, I live with my parents. I need a change, but I can’t get motivated. If you get any feedback, help me out too.

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cookai offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (35 minutes after post)

you guys need to ask yourselves what is it that you really like to do…
you may be a great talent at musci but if your passion is not that… then you will be shortchanging yourself..

find your passion…

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paul7k offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Procrastination is a habit that you have to work to kick. It does take a lot of time, but with continued effort you will diminish the time you spend wasting time and feel do what you need to first.

Try starting a routine to eat healthier, and do some exercise if you aren’t already. Usually helps on your energy levels.

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