This rose that I have been plucking has been depleted.
The last petal fell at the phrase… he loves me not.
This morning I ask him if he will be sad if I go and he said…
I think so… yes
but when i asked him if he would be sad if he lose her he said…
yes… NOT I think so… NOT I guess so… just yes.
He’s sure to be sad.
How can I claim to love him if I aim to make him sad because I want him to leave her?
If my love for him is true and pure…
then I should let them be…
True love is that love which do not wish ill of others…
It is not about what’s good for me and how I feel but what he wants and what he feels.
Aid…I wish you well.
This has got to be the hardest thing that I ever have to do…
It’s time I stop interfering with your life.
I’ll just be here if you need me…
I’ll be your friend if that’s what you need.
did u just make that up? if so holy jeeze… its awesome.
could u modify it for me.. my girl just doesnt know if she sees me in her future… but there is no other guy and i dearly love her.. and i dont want to push her to love me but i dont want to risk losing her for no good reason =x
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thank you…
i can write…
one of the very few talents that i have…
lemme see if i have something stored for your situation…
but you havent answered though…
what do i do?
it seems like you answered yourself!.. if you are the one that posted…
from my personal experience i was with a girl that was sorta with a guy but wanted to be with me. sure enough she soon left her ex for me… 2 years pass and it happens again, only this time she leaves me.
i say if you love him and he really loves you, you dont do that halfway stuff. you will be there if he leaves.. but dont push him to, thats up to him, but dont be that other girl.
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HOW IS THIS?
I modified another thing i’ve written… just put in the details that you need.
Serendipity
It happens…
when one accidentally discovers something fortunate, especially while looking for something else entirely.
perhaps you were just (PLEASE PUT IN HOW WHAT SHE WAS DOING WHEN YOU MET HER)…
and he… he was just happy (PUT YOUR SITUATION HERE).
your eyes meet, you smile and you wonder why your heart is beating so fast.
A (PUT HERE TIME YOU WERE TOGETHER) months after Serendipity…
you wonder what happened?
how did you end up where you are?
what went wrong?
he let you into her heart and into her life
Hhe gave you her soul and her whole being
he let you take the wheel into her future
You drove hin a million miles…
only to find yourself back to that place where you started…
You don’t know if you can love him the way he loves you…
You think you’re just too young…
You’re not sure if someone else can love you the way he does…
and it’s his love that you can’t forget.
confused, you now try to find out where you’re supposed to be…
and you’re huting him in the process…
It saddens you to think that you might have to let him go…
and you’re scared that you’ll lose him forever if you do…
he loves you…
Serendipity gave you the chance to make something out of an accidental meeting.
What will you do?
he loves you…
you won’t ever forgive yourself if you find out eventually that it’s him that you needed… his love… his care…
yet you are not sure now if that is where you belong.
you know it’s only you…
only you could make the problem go away…
you need to make a choice.
In your case, Serendipity will only be Serendipity if you choose to make it one.
sh*t… forgot to click the anonyous tab…
i’m messed up!!!
lol
hehe =] well i apprecaite that =]] i will post it on my blog, thank you much.
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yeah but that’s in my blog too…
so i dunno…perhaps you can modify the owrds or something… just get theought ok? :)
words* and thought..
man… i’m not well…
:(
well, if you ask me, i’d want him/her to made up his/her mind and choose. i mean, if the same thing happens to me like to your bf there, i know i would have such a hard time, but i would also know just letting things be would hit me in the future… thus i’d know i have to made up my mind… i’d choose the one who loved me most, by the way.
yeah i would think thats the most logical choice too…
why can’t he see that he has a better deal if he chooses me.
i love him more…
but i think that has lead him to ignore me..
because he thinks i’ll just be there
no matter what…
hate this life!
if he can have both, then why would he choose. also, i dont knwo what it is but sometimes its better to be a fight… to have that chase… to know that you wont be waiting for him indefinitely.
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that being said, i’m sorry if im being ‘insensitive’ or something like that, i would never ever said to someone that even though i know she loved me more than this other girl, i still would prefer to with this other girl… i don’t know, but to me it just sounded like just plain rude… know what i mean?
yeah…
i know what you mean.
i completely understand
that’s why it irks me…
i’m not some ugly, stupid, desperate girl..
but somehow… i just cant stop myself from being …
well… stupid.
i know i should stop talking to him
but its sad that after all he’s done…
i still want to…
my friends tell me its just about me trying to win…
but i dont think so.
there’s no good excuse for doing somethin’ wrong. Let him be. If u were in a relationship, u wldn’t want to be left for someone else, wld u?
as unbelievable as it may be, i honestly can understand what you’re saying. but, sometimes, we have to use our head to protect our heart…
ah well, being competitive is a good thing anyways, keeps us on the top!
i question that too… for myself but i think i sometimes just cant accept rejection. and need her to validify me
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temilola_bakar wrote:
there’s no good excuse for doing somethin’ wrong. Let him be. If u were in a relationship, u wldn’t want to be left for someone else, wld u?
isnt that what the other girl did to me?
we were together 1 and 1/5 years…
am just tyring to get him back..
were like a **** yoyo
zoo_baw wrote:
as unbelievable as it may be, i honestly can understand what you’re saying. but, sometimes, we have to use our head to protect our heart…
ah well, being competitive is a good thing anyways, keeps us on the top!
use our head to protect our heart…
what about this then?
Hope is a belief in a positive outcome related to events and circumstances in one’s life. Hope is the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best. To hope is to wish for something with the expectation of the wish being fulfilled.
Hope is the key condition in unrequited love.
To hope even if the odds are against me is maddness.
As it is maddness to love someone who loves someone else.
Yet to love without hope is emptiness
and life lived without the one you love is a life not worth living.
don’t you feel that even though its painful to be with him…
it’s more painful to be without him?
theres hope and theres fate. it will work out if its meant to be. you may or may not be meant to be with that person, there may be someone even better out there for you. you can hope for him to realise it but that doesnt mean it will happen.
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now my head hurts, i guess it won’t do much to protect our heart anymore, does it?
naah, like i said, if he is not yet made up his mind now, what made you so sure that when the time comes, and believe me it always comes, no doubt about it, and the girl he liked asked him to leave you, or possibly even some other girl who he liked better than you, what do you think he’ll do?
the thing is, certainty is much better than a mere hope, so we always strife for it whenever possible.
you think i should move on then?
not talk to him anymore?
not even try to be his friend (you know i cant handle it right?)
i dont know that you should really protect your heart.. i am personally against it as the second you do that.. you lock it away from the world… id prefer to ’stand inside the fire’
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gewgewagew wrote:
i dont know that you should really protect your heart.. i am personally against it as the second you do that.. you lock it away from the world… id prefer to ’stand inside the fire’
now i’m confused!!!
what do i do?:(
please…
well i cant advise on not being friend or not… but i know it is rediculously hard to just be a friend w/ someone you love like that. i have tried.. many times.. it only made things worse. it would be amazing when i saw her but soon i would be longing for her again, and she still wouldnt be with me.
you know the feeling of wanting something you dont have… more than likely if you dont talk to him and make him choose… he will come after you.. but its a risk.. one im playing with right now myself =/
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i totally understand your point..
but i am soooo scared…
what if he doesnt choose me?
what if he really lets me go completely?
what then?
i’ll just die!!!
first of all, please don’t take ’strangers’ words as it is, we are merely giving advice solely based on our own perspective. in the end, it is you that have to make the decision since it is you that have to live with it.
now, i did not reckon you should leave and shut him out right away, just that you should make him choose, then if he doesn’t choose you… some things are just not meant to be, there are nothing we mere mortals can do about it unfortunately, you’d just have to be patient then… ever heard the phrase ‘there are plenty of fish in the sea’?
ive been asking him to choose…
but he wont.
plenty of fish in the sea…
i guess not on my lake.
no you wont honey. you have alot to give and any guy would be a fool not to realise that. personally my faith is the only reason as ive handled myself as well as i have, but trust me you need to build your life seperate from this person, you need to be an individual and be able to survive alone even if you did have him. its not fair or healthy to base your happiness on someone else. you must make yourself happy.
and see he has no reason he should choose, because right now.. he has his cake and can eat it to (has the best of both worlds).
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youre right.
but honestly
i dont think he’ll ever choose me anyway.
sigh* thanks for the time and company you guys..
that was a good ranting session
wich we had vodka in front of us…
u must have heard toni braxton’s let it flow b4. The point is no matter what u do, however long it takes… what wld be wld be. so dn’t push anything. Do u believe u might even fall out of love with him first in the future and not even belive u once cldn’t get him outta ur mind.
haha i dont drink for reasons like that… i think itd just make things worse for me if i ever did > i have addictive personaly as it is.
im sorry you have that worry on your heart, i know how it feels, one of worst feelings in world. just meet some other guys.. talking to girls any random girl is one of the most helpful things for me…
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dont you ever get tired of it though?
meeting new people?
starting all over again…
i hate that.
i want to be safe inside my cocoon but it was destroyed before i even had the chance to complete it
=/ if only it were so simple.. but thats the beauty of it all. you cant force any of it.. it takes two. you may need to learn to let go, are you one always in control of things?
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yes…thats me the control freak.
i’m smarter btw
temilola_bakar wrote:
u must have heard toni braxton’s let it flow b4. The point is no matter what u do, however long it takes… what wld be wld be. so dn’t push anything. Do u believe u might even fall out of love with him first in the future and not even belive u once cldn’t get him outta ur mind.
i wish this happens now…
really guys…
i’m ranting
i’m saying that “i’ll just die!!!”
but i do want to get over him
if only its that easy….
it was a question but.. no its not easy.. but it is doable. you just gotta take first steps.. ad take it a day at a time.
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i tried that already…
there was no communication for a month
but then he started talkint to me again and so i’m right back where i started.
maybe it was better when he wasnt talking to me anymore…
oopss did i just say that?
i take it back!!! :(
so you can do it! but did he started talking to you first or you to him ~.^
if he really cared for you he would not treat you this way.. you dont really want someone that would be so insinsitive to your heart would you?
you are helping me realise just how much my girl has huurt me even when she hasnt tried to.
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well.. it was me.
when we broke up, we needed to give me back something that belongs to me.
so one month of nothing…
then all of a sudden he was online in yahoo so i just sent him a message of where to send my stuff.
after three days he responded that he was going to send them the following week.
then he asked me how i was.. he said he’s been reading ym blog and stuff like that.
i asked him to confirm if he went back to her and he said…
it’s complicated!!!
from then one we started talking every day,
he’d call me when he gets to his office… when he gets home… just like he did when we were together..
*he needed to give me back something that belongs to me.
thats how he told me that he gets frustrated because i loved him differently
with me he felt important… loved… he was king
while his gf… when he asks her stuff like..
if she really loved him, why etc etc
would give him …
in his words “lousy F******* answers”
hehe its amazing how we can find any excuse to decieve ourselves when we really desire something.
i have used every excuse in the book.. and then some alreayd..
as my mom always says ‘you may just have to to get slapped a few times till you wake up’ sadly i seem to be good at getting slapped..
i think it all has to do with my low self esteem at times.
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but the thing is… he can’t compare her to me…
i’m good with words…
as you could already tell..
i’m a poet.
she’s just …
she’s just some girl.
haha yeah… it was an excuse i admit…
but then he wanted to talk to me too…
i felt it…
why?
because he was out of reach the whole effen month!!
i tried callin him, emailin him, sending text messages, he’s always invisible to me in yahoo…
but the moment that i stopped… (it was about a week and a half)
there he was online and visible to me… he was sending me messages and when i tried to call him… he answered..
EF him really!
lol.. thats not for you to decide… and i really dont think thats a healthy attitude to have towards that girl.. good for her you should really leave her out of this tho.. its him that you should deal with.
and yes i have felt that too with my girl.. she is human too and can mess up and show that affection im longing for, but that doesnt make it right if i make the contact.
and yes… i was doing well too for a while and then she messaged me twice w/in a week.. about random stuff.. and i crumbled like a stack of cards. just recently i made a cd to give her > this is a never ending cycle i should really get out of.
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you and me both…
by the looks of it…
btw … how old are you anyway?
im 23 how about yourself?
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you’re like really young.
i’m 31
im not that young =]
but yes.. see we dwell so much on what we are missing when we should be out there discovering new things. to get out of a hole we must first stop digging… stop giving attention to this which hurts us. that doesnt mean we are giving up hope, we just arent standing still being helpless.
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wow that wa great!
how’s about you and me make a deal to better ourselves… :)
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hmm… i dont know.
what do you think will help you?
i know that i have to move on..
so i’m committing to that
My grandmother said it best. She once told me, “(My name) You should marry and take care of someone who loves you more than you love them. That way you know they will always be there for you.”
It sounds to me like that relationship is a poor one to start with. trust me i know i had a horrible marriage and thankfully I got out of it, but it took quite a bit from my life. Do what your you think is best. you cant and shouldnt regret any choices in life. No matter what happens.
thanks… the problem is… i dont know what choice to make.
i love him but he doesnt love me
i guess that starts out wrong huh…
even worse… he loves someone else.
but he cannot forgot the love i gave him so he is stringing me on.
aye you dont know which choice would be a regret…
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but how do we know really?
what if i give up on him just when he realizes that its me he needs?
but then if i dont give up now..
its also possible im just wasting time.
i think you must move on.. and if he wants you bad enough.. he will make the effort to get you back.. and if you make it too easy to be gotten then i wouldnt be surprised if it all just happens again.
we need boundries to now allow these things to happen tous.
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i knew this all along… but it doesnt make it easier though.
You should look at it from your perspective not his. Do you need him to be happy? Can you get over him, the same question im asking myself right now, or do you think youll never be happy with out him.
In my opinion, I have been in love and even married before and found that life isnt always the way you think it is. That some days you just need to move on and be ok with what happened.
So answer it this way. What do you need in your life?
Once you have that answer, keep with it. because some times they come back, like my ex, and tear all the work you put into getting over them apart. but you just have to decide for yourself not worrying about what he thinks or how it affects him or even if it does.
Unfortunatly life is F’n tough, Ive never found anything to be easy.
no it doesnt =/
tho i know.. right now i havnt seen her in over 2 weeks and im doin ok right now… even tho i cant sleep at night. but i was planing on seeing her tomorrow.. and its prolly gonna screw me up.. im kinda dreading it.
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why are you going to go see her. if you dont mind me butting in on your convo.
what i want?
i want him to be beside me.
i want to be the one he loves…
but as you know
we cant always get what we want.
why would you still want to see her?
whats the status of your relationship?
yea. I guess you can try and hope that one day he is there and does love you not her.
Im having the same issue right now. except there is no one else, he just doesnt want me. For me personally I know what i want and what i need to do. being completely opposite from each other. It completely sucks.
I wish i could give you an answer just like i wish someone could give me an answer but I dont think its that easy. and im sorry about that.
its ok…
at least we have today and each other to talk to..
it helps doesnt it?
complicated.. she loves me as a person… and i can at times feel the chemistry but one day she took 4 months break to grow in her faith.. and be single… after many attempts on my part to just be a friend, it just drove her further away.. i think its because i resented it and was so depressed i couldnt handle myself around her very well… sometiems i could but then i would explode in emotions, if i saw her too much. shes not very attracted to that sort of thing. so 2 weeks ago as i said i wasnt going to reduce how much i talk to her till the end of her singleness, and that nite she told me that she didnt see me in her future. thing is a week or so later she contacted me w/ random stuff and i tried to shrug it off.. not making big chat but i did respond. .. but it has been eating at me lately and i ended up texting her one night.. and making this cd. i plan on brifely seeing her tomorrow to give her that cd i made.
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i was* going to reduce how much i talk to her
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ahhh our foolish hearts…
you know we cant help but want to be with them even if they dont want to be with us anymore
and I hate that… figures.
but what can we do?
really…
i plan on going on dates w/ girls.. i probably wont kiss or make any moves.. but i think it will help and at least get to know people.
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a key is being social and active… which has been hard lately considering school and living in a single apartment > ive gone crazy lately because of that fact.
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that makes sense…
wish i had that option..
kindda harder finding someone as you grow older
you may try an online dating thing =x i have actually looked into it some. my sister actually married a person she met online… she was .. 24 or 25
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dunno if thats for me…
especially not from Manilaonline daters from here has a bad rep
i’ll be in travelling to the US 2 weeks rom now…
maybe i’ll meet someone there :)
stranger things have happened =]
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hmmm… here’s to wishful thinking
just enjoy yourself.. itll happen when you least expect it.
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yeah… thats how i met him…
just when i wasnt looking
but look where it got me?
haha dont be cynical.. and i hpoe you dont hide your heart because that person that does deserve it, deserves it all and not to be punished by the actions of this guy.
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well…
i think i’m not ready yet…
but you go ahead and enjoy meeting other people
yea its been quite a time now that weve actually been broken up… and again i am not looking for a relationship… i just like the companionship of girls
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dont you think thats a bt unfair?
what if the girl falls in love with you? what then…
dont laughg
ive seen that happen before
hrm interesting… altho theres that risk anywhere even if we are just in any normal social situation but i can see how that would be wrong if i ask them out on a date….
well if i found that i liked her too i would consider moving further at least but my heart would be reserved..
altho see even when i moved to this girl.. my heart was still hurt by my previous relationship, i just knew i had to move on at that point tho..
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its not easy…
i’m tellin you.
hard to find someone else to like if youre really still inlove with your ex.
no matter how beautiful, smart, sexy…
you have to get over that one before you start a new one.
see my ex didnt go through this process..
thus me.
well i had opposite… had i not moved on i may not have met this girl..
anyhow i should go to sleep… it is… um early i guess i could say.. > thoughts are running together ;p
if you want you can email me i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>
ill check up on here sometimes too..
take care and keep movin =]
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interesting … slicknic85 at g mail dot com
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i just sent you an email.
at yahoo.com
let me know if you got it
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ugh what an ugly topic for a popular post…
oh but what a good rant it was for me
I didn’t read any of the replies.
But why on earth are you waiting for this guy? Sure, you love him .. but he already left you once, for his ex. Clearly, he doesn’t care for you the same way you care for him. What makes you think he won’t go and do that all again if he does chose you? Why would you want someone like that? Find someone who appreciates you.
hi Tiff!
thanks for the reply…
he says he’s confused…
he’s left his ex for me too once…
i’m hoping this is like the final battle.
I think the best thing for you to do is give him time to ‘figure out what he wants’. Stop talking to him for awhile. You move on with your life and do things that make you happy. Don’t put him first anymore. If he really wants you and cares for you, he will prove it and do anything to make you see that. It also sort of seems like, in his mind, he can ‘have his cake and eat it too.’ Why only have one girl when you can switch back and forth?
That’s just the way I see it. Don’t let him do that to you. He needs to grow up and make up his mind.
i know…
i totally understand what you mean…
i’m just scared…
what if i pull away and he’d see that as me losing my love for him… :(
thats my only advantge over the other girl…
he knows i love him more
I know you’re scared. It’s okay to be scared. :)
That’s why you have people like us that are always going to be here helping you out. If you pull away and he views that as you not caring anymore and then he decides to not want to be with you, that’s his fault. A guy who really cares would not give up that easily.
Make it clear to him that you do care, but that you deserve someone who is going to be honest and devoted to you, not someone who you have to worry might leave again. It’s selfish of him to ‘expect’ you to wait around for when he is ready (or not).
Let me ask you something .. why do you think he wants to be with you?
Because *you* love him or because *he* loves you?
he only loves me because i love him
So why give your love to someone like that?
He wants the attention, affection, love, etc from you ..but he isn’t giving it back. It’s a one sided relationship. (Or it would be..)
sigh*
i know what youre saying.
it’s just that in my 31 years in this lifetime
ive never felt anything like this
and i thought he was the one
its kindda hard to let go of a dream.
i’ve programmed myself to think that he is the one.
maybe it’s not.
i’m beginning to think he is not out there.
maybe i’m supposed to be alone in this world
you really need to realize that if he will cheat on her, he will do the same to you. realize that the type of relationship you have is unfair to yourself. you deserve to find a man that will love solely you the way you deserve and need. what is your dream to be the second forever
and this will never change?
no chance in hell?
Shelley wrote:
sigh*
ive never felt anything like this
and i thought he was the one
I know exactly how you feel.
I planned on getting married to a guy I was with for almost 6 years. We even talked about having kids. It’s still hurts, but I know that me ending things was for the best.
To be quite honest, I don’t think things will change. He’s done this tiwce (?) before. He doesn’t sound like he’s ready to grow up and be devoted to just one woman.
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and this will never change?no chance in hell?
nope
Christmas is coming…
i guess one detail i’ve not placed is that were in a long distance triangle.
He’s in Toronto, I’m in Manila, She is in Vancouver.
I’m flying to Cali next week. Will be there for the holidays…
I guess D day for him is fast approaching.
Where will he be flying to for the holidays?
US or Vancouver?
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and this will never change?no chance in hell?
once a cheatin conivin *** always one
so hard to get over a broken heart.
were like a vicious cycle.
and im always trying to convince myself that this is the darkest time before the dawn but daylight isnt coming
so… how do i start this getting over him thing?
This probably doesn’t help much Shelley .. but you sound like a very good-hearted person. You do deserve better.
But I know it’s hard trying to convince yourself that things aren’t working when you love the other person dearly.
Shelley wrote:
so hard to get over a broken heart.were like a vicious cycle.and im always trying to convince myself that this is the darkest time before the dawn but daylight isnt coming
you can do bad on your own, but mr right can’t find you if you are with mr wrong
sooo hard. :(
especially if the only highlight of my day for the past year and a half has been talking to him
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you can do bad on your own, but mr right can’t find you if you are with mr wrong
Very true.
I suggest what I said before. Move on. (Not necessarly relationship wise - give yourself time to ‘heal’.) But do what you want, make yourself happy. Enjoy life.
♥ tiffany! wrote:
This probably doesn’t help much Shelley .. but you sound like a very good-hearted person. You do deserve better.But I know it’s hard trying to convince yourself that things aren’t working when you love the other person dearly.
i wish there was a magic pill that you drink and youre all completely over him
i dont want to mr right.
i just want to be all right.
i dont want to fall in love ever again.
after i get through this…
if ever i do get through this…
i’m never going to fall again.
first and last!
♥ tiffany! wrote:
berta wrote:
you can do bad on your own, but mr right can’t find you if you are with mr wrong
Very true.I suggest what I said before. Move on. (Not necessarly relationship wise - give yourself time to ‘heal’.) But do what you want, make yourself happy. Enjoy life.
life is definitely meant to be lived, there is so much in life to do
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i dont want to fall in love ever again.after i get through this…if ever i do get through this…i’m never going to fall again.first and last!
i thought the same
love is definitely something that i thought that would never come. true love, where he loves me as much as i do him
berta wrote:
Shelley wrote:
i dont want to fall in love ever again.after i get through this…if ever i do get through this…i’m never going to fall again.first and last!
i thought the same
what happened?
did you fall in love again?
or am i right to think…
thats only once in a lifetime?
what you have is love but not true love. true love is knowing and with no doubts
Shelley wrote:
berta wrote:
Shelley wrote:
i dont want to fall in love ever again.after i get through this…if ever i do get through this…i’m never going to fall again.first and last!
i thought the same
what happened?did you fall in love again?or am i right to think…thats only once in a lifetime?
i found a man that loves me unconditionally even my faults and shows it
:) well some people are just luckier than others…
I’m happy for you Berta
Shelley wrote:
:) well some people are just luckier than others…I’m happy for you Berta
i thought i was the most unlucky person in the world with all that i had endured with my ex. there is sommeone for everyone, i truly believe that.
i’m way too old…
to even start again.
hi i am 31. i found my man 4 yrs ago after 3 kids by 2 different men
i’m 31. you found your man when you were 26.
don’t give up hope that you can be happy. my friend is 32 and looking to get married to the man she met just before she turned 31
nevermind..
maybe i should just be happy i have my own money
as you can see i am the glass is half full person. i wasn’t always that way
as they say… successful women have pretty crappy love lives
maybe i should just accept that.
you should be happy that life is there everyday for you to live. do the things that you always wanted without anything holding you back. all you have to do is believe that you are going to be happy and you will be. success doesn’t mean that your personal life is doomed. but can you share some of that success with me. whats your secret
if i had the money i would be traveling the world experiencing all that life has to offer
worked my *** off since i got out of college.
i got so focused with making money, a career and a name for myself.
sure i am ahead of everyone from class but
as you could see.. it’s a trade off.
i have not been inlove…
just with this guy and i met him when i was almost 30.
he’s younger by a year.
now he’s 30 and i’m 31…
nothing.
berta wrote:
if i had the money i would be traveling the world experiencing all that life has to offer
hahaha… unfortunately with a career… you dont really have that much time to travel.
you can shop… but not go out of the country often.
I’m lucky i’m travelling to the US this xmas season
its a lonely planet for me
i believe that you will be fine but its not for me to believe. when you least expect it then it will come. you need to get out more, your loneliness has provided you with your current situation. you KNOW you are worth more than what this man has to offer. you are not doomed to be lonely forever. but it does sound like you need to make more time for yourself. when you are 70 will you be happy of memories of only work. put yourself first more. i’m not saying quit your job but open up more possibilities. do you work 7 days?
i’m also probably in the wrong place.
filipinos are just tooo egotistic
they hate it when women are more succesful than them.
thats why no one likes me…
are you against dating out of your race?
6 days…dang, girl. i am also a workaholic well was before i lost my job. but i still made sure i did something on my days off.
hahaha…
no… not against dating out of my race but its hard…
how? hahaha
how do i meet people not from here?:)
working like that you should be able to retire at like 50. you can’t tell me that ONLY filipinos reside there.
yeah…
not a lot of foreign nationals here
mym mum is retired she’s 52.
she was also a career woman and i guess i took after her.
she also had a crappy love life btw
maybe you will meet someone in cali.
ha…
can someone really be more wonderful than Adrian?
what do you like about your man?
yep they could put you first and only
I like that he doesn’t try to tie me down. i can still have a girls night out with no reprecussions. i love that he will just bring me a flower just because. i love that when i look at him and he catches eye contact that i can see his expression soften. he opens the door for me. he’ll eat my new recipes even though he isn’t sure what it will taste like. i like that he will cancel his friends just to stay home and watch a movie with me. its all the little stuff
wow…
you’re sooo lucky. :)
he’s really sweet…
honestly… i don’t think a lot of guys are like that.
you should take care of him
i’ve been thru all you have. i went thru a period where i flipped and hated all men for like a period of 2 years treatin them all like garbage only going for what they could give me.
Jamaine changed all that. He never had a serious relationship before me, and he is only a year younger than me. So you see there is hope… NEVER give up hope.
i have hope…
but i’ve pegged it at the wrong person.
i’m smart i know what i need to do
but the heart… harder to teach.
it wasnt meant for thinking
but i’ll try to be better.
you’re right.
i should know my worth.
i’ll try to find something that will make me happy even if it doesnt involve a guy.
yes i know…and i would be lying if i said it won’t hurt. but the pain does pass and life does go on. remember you only have one life to live. live with no regrets but with lessons learned
thats true.
i’ll try…
hope that next time we’ll get to talk…
i’ll have better news…
thanks for your time.
i know it’s kindda late where you are.
i hate snow too…
good thing that it doesnt snow where i am
haha… very funny. keep in touch and let me know how things are
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1 year ago (23 hours, 23 minutes after post)
“would you rather be with the one you love or the one who loves you?”…………….how about both who is to say that anyone doesnt deserve both
STOP all contact with this creep.
When you love someone - you’ll sacrifice
You’d give it everything you got and you won’t think twice
You’d risk it all - no matter what may come
When you love someone
i know thats just sooo wrong… lol
what the hell do you love about him he sais he loves and wants her to love him the way you do he sais he would be sad to lose her i think you know you can have him any time you want in the bed room but you will never have his heart so why wate ditch him go out n you will soon find some one eles who will commit to you and if his real gf found out about you and left him would you truly be happy knowing he is only with you cuase he cant have her
stay with he one you love and try to get them to stop doing whatever they are doing and try as hard as you can. don’t give up on them sometimes comforting words and loving words can help someone a whole lot. you can do something about it you can make a difference in the world and your loved ones lives
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I was in this exactly situation for 2 years he would go back and forth between me and her, he would end up cheating on me each time with her(thats how we would break up) few months later he would call me saying how sorry he was and stupid he was because she would cheat on him all the time. long story short, it wasnt worth it you should just cut all ties with him. You will end up getting hurt because this guy likes getting his cake and eating it too!!
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help me with this one please…
i met someone a year ago… and he has a gf…
after getting to know each other… he left his gf to be with me..
a few weeks ago he broke up with me and i found out that he was with his ex…
now he’s talking to me again… saying that he loves her but it frustrates him because she doesnt love him like i do…
now we act like were in a relationship again but i fully know that he is still with her…
do you think i should go on and keep hoping that eventually he’ll choose me?
would you rather be with the one you love or the one who loves you?
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