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I am feeling very lonely and isolated, feeling negative can’t hold a job,

i have no one to love & no one to love me back. i meet new friends all the time but they never stick, in fact they even ignore my emails. i recently read this book and discovered i have adult A.D.D something carried on from childhood. i have a tun of problems and issues that keep piling high.
i’m 32 yrs old and i’m a big fat loser. i just wanna die right now.

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Ambitious offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Go ahead and die, no one’s gonna stop you. No one gives a **** about your troubles alright? Get this, the world isn’t going to stop revolving so that you can catch up. Either you give up and live the rest of your life as a big, fat, loser, if you live at all…or you can start organizing your life right now and move up. I know people who have A.D.D. and they hold jobs and have families. And believe me, they started out way lower than your position right now. You’re not too late so get a A.D.D. coach or counseling, and start finding jobs that you might find interesting and get moving. Life isn’t a pity party, if it was, then the human race would cease to exist. Prove yourself as a human being and just do something that’ll give your life meaning. But you better start getting a move on or it might be too late. So MOVE!

bionic177 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

hi this is my post but i put in the wrong email b4 so i can’t get into my acct.

thank you ambitious, you are a good and wise person,.
i never heard of a ADD coach how do i go about it?

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

Anon, being that you are a very young person, you have your whole life ahead of you. There is only one way you can be a loser, that is too give up. Hang in there my friend.

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Ambitious offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Hey buddy, I’ll be frank with you. I don’t know much about these coaches either or their costs or whatever exactly the hell they do. But I know people who have had these coaches and their lives sure seem fine to me. Here are some links that may help you.

http://www.addconsults.com/coaches/

http://www.addcoach.com/

http://www.findyourcoach.com/0o-add-c…

Best of luck. Cheers mate.

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bionic177 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (41 minutes after post)

thanks for your help, i’ll be sure to check out those links. god bless!

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Good post Ambitious…was a little concerned when I read the beginning of your orginial post, but tuff love is needed sometimes.

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bionic177 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

thank you jjlove for those words of wisdom. ;o)

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shayon offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

Come to my world where you would never be rejected, where you would find love, affection and recognition.

Because we all love you!

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aam285 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

I’m sick and tired of people in the west complaning about how their lives suck and nobody loves them. They find superficial outlets to find love, and meaning in their lives and when that fails all hell breaks loose. Do you even realize how privileged you are to be just born in the west. Unfortunately we all in the west take each and everything that has been given to us as rights. So here’s news for you, these are luxuries. Yes this is from someone who lived in slumbs in india and pakistan for 20 + years before coming to the US, I have just an average life but I think I am blessed to have a good life, good health. Stop comparing yourself to prophecies not meant for you and try to figure out what is your calling. The key to living a healthy and loving life is simplicity.

It’s time you take charge of your life and fight for it. In all it’s ugliness life is beautiful you just have to change the way you see things.

Fight , fight , fight and I promise you you’ll succeed.,

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dannychiaramont offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 months after post)

hang in there

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cnew offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (11 months, 2 weeks after post)

be strong = trust in God and his son Jesus

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