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I’m 35 and I think i’m attractive.

I’m every guy I know best girlfriend. I don’t even think they think of me as girlfriend material… why??? They tell me I’m very pretty and that I am attractive and friendly. So how come when I go out with these guys the only thing they talk about is their ex wives, ex girlfriends, not being into marriage? WHY IS THIS? OH and then after a while I find out that these yahoos are interested in me but I have to make all the moves..

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Maybe they’re intimidated by you.

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

I am 35, I think you may be goimg out with the wrong guys.

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (59 minutes after post)

I am 32, and if you talk to me about marriage, I will give you a detailed account of what I think life will be like in 2016….
You raen’t interested in marriage, is that what you are saying?

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 156 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

well if they talk about their ex wives start talking about your ex’s

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 55 minutes after post)

what of your Dad do you see in these men?

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larz.blackma offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

maybe you’re wrong.

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