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how long has your father been a alcoholic? Mine is too. Also this is my post! Wasn’t supposed to be anonymous
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Im sorry about your mother :’(
on top of that having a alcoholic father.
I know how difficult that must be.
My father has been a alcoholic ever since
I was born.
How does him being a alcoholic make you feel?
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It’s okay.
I feel a whole bunch of feelings.
Im angry because he’s supposed to be my father, and be there for me.
I feel neglected because he seems to always ignore me. ( it’s a painful feeling) Nervous because a few things happened with me and my father. Im scared that they will happen again.
Unloved.
Unworthy.
But I g2g Im actually at school.
So I will talk to you later.
What happened with you and him?
bye bye
dont worry your not alone
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Okay than.
I will be looking forward
to talking with you.
Bye bye
xoxo
have a great day
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♥ sarah ☺ wrote:
ariel_loves_music wrote:
It’s okay.
I feel a whole bunch of feelings.
Im angry because he’s supposed to be my father, and be there for me.
I feel neglected because he seems to always ignore me. ( it’s a painful feeling) Nervous because a few things happened with me and my father. Im scared that they will happen again.
Unloved.
Unworthy.
But I g2g Im actually at school.
So I will talk to you later.
What happened with you and him?
bye bye
dont worry your not alone
well lets jusdt say im pregant to the man i thought was my dad …
and disowned me for getting pregant with my first child l00l
so yeah
I am so sorry. I can just imagine how hard that must have been for you.
Did you have the child?
If so did you keep the child?
Or are you just pregnant now?
I am so sorry that your father did that to you. He had no right to do such a
thing. I know how hard it is to deal with something so heart breaking.
Hope your okay.
Ttyl
xoxox bye bye
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Hey,
How old are you?
How old is the child?
Im sorry that you are pregnant with
your father’s child. I know that must be
really difficult.
Your father does know about this right?
Im alright I got a lot of complicated, painful, and confusing
stuff going on with me right now.
But Im getting through, so far…..
Hope you had a good day.
Talk to you soon!!!
:D bye bye
P.s. Do you have msn?
Hi, i am a 17 and have an alcoholic father. He was sober for about 14 years then started drinking again. but this past summer he got a dui, which me and my mother thought changed him he was sober for about 4 1/2 months then he started drinking recntly. I have told him how i feel and he and my mother fight alot. As far as im concerned i want nothing to do with him. Could some body give me any advice on how to deal with this cuz i have no idea what to do.
Email me at (email removed) o m
And than we can talk.
And i will try and help you the best I can (:
Email me at different-perspective___hotmail.___ :P Lmao
sorry i couldn’t see your e mail could you e mail me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>
Awe :( Ur email was deleted as well.
Okay here my mail is
different-perspective
than the @hotmail.com part :P
Am in the process of writing a book that “touches” on my alcoholic father and disfuntion family,ive survived it.Im 43 now i see my father drinking himself to death,watched him beat my mother ,then watched him beat my stef mother.Ive deleloped a sence of humour.What do you do with a handful of your stepmothers hair in your rice pudding ?When the bottle of red sauce hes smashed at the bathroom door is blood . Until you realise its red sauce of course !xx
I really hope someone out there can give me some advice. My father is an alcoholic and has been an alcoholic for as long as I can remember. Until 3 years ago he always ad good jobs, earned a decent salary and kept his drinking as much as a secret as possible from his collegues. He retired 3years ago and his drinking increased then, probably because he had too much time on his hands, no hobbies and no friends. A few months ago his wife left him and he has now taken to staying in bed for days at a time drinking vodka straight. He has never been a social drinker, always drank vodka straight in private. By that I mean he could seem pretty sober then go for a shower and come back completely pissed. He had obviously downed a half bottle of vodka in the shower. If you asked if he had been drinking he would deny it till the end. I wonder if he has had some sort of breakdown and this could be why the drinking has spiralled completely out of control? I dont know what to do to help him, I have young family of my own and do feel resentfull that I have to worry about my 63 year old father. Help, I need avice big time.
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Well the only thing i could think of is suggesting to him that he goes to AA.( Alcoholics Anonymous.) Or just being there for him and support him the best you can, be there for him when he is sober ( if he ever is ) and talk to him about all of that than. Maybe it will be easier to have a conversation with the person that is completely sober.
Theres nothing you can really do unless the alcoholic is actually willing to stop drinking.
Im sorry I cant really help.
Hope everything is going alright : )
Hi, my dad is an alcoholic. he has struggled with this for the last 5 years or so but has managed to go without for a long time and we thought he was recovering. however, he has gone back to it and we cannot stop him. he has a medical issue which meas he is not supposed to drink anyway.
he is a very intelligent man however he seems like a different person now. it used to be like he was 2 people - different when he was sober however now it seems like the alcohol has had a permanent effect on him and even when he is sober he seems not with it.
it breaks my heart that he is suffering this and in a way it isnt his fault……but we have tried so many times to help him and it feels like he doesnt care. he has had some close calls and even that hasn’t been a wake up call for him.
I have no clue what to do….and i think we are either going to lose him soon or have to witness him suffer something awful like dementia….i have heard alcohol can cause this and sometimes i think i see the signs.
any advise?
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