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How come people only want to hang with you if you are fun?

What about people who are just bland? They need friendship too.

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hope02 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (19 minutes after post)

im not fun but i have friends because im nice and do stuff for ppl…so i guess u dont need to be fun

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (22 minutes after post)

It’s less about being fun naturally than people having fun with you. Opposites attract, so you might find a fun-loving person who needs a down to earth type of person to help them.

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Sherooo offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (31 minutes after post)

describe what you mean by ‘fun’?

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (43 minutes after post)

People love to be entertained; it doesn’t have to be much but as long as you are enjoying yourself when you do it everything will be just fine. Find things that you like to do, then ask people to join you. Before you know it you’ll have many friends.

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