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how do you fix people when der broke?

It sounds stupid but i dumped this girl a week ago and her friends keep on telling me to fix her cuz she’s broke, please help!

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Well, did she really deserve to be dumped? Obviousy she is very hurt. Perhaps if nothing else, you could offer to remain friends with her, that might help.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I didn’t luv her lyk i used 2 an i didn’t wanna string her along or anyfin so i thought it would be best if we broke up.. I knew she’d be upset but i didn’t kno wat else 2 do. I’ve tried to say we can still b friends 2 her but she either cant hear or wont listen.

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12 months ago (14 minutes after post)

The best thing you can do for her is stay the hell away from her and let her move on. Don’t confuse her.

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Tailz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (20 minutes after post)

i know i should do dat but her friends wont leave me alone dey just keep tellin me to fix her

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Tell them you offered friendship only as this is all you can offer, considering the circumstances. Trying to get you back using her friends to pester you is never a good idea. Of course they are going to be concerned over their friend, but if your mind is made up, then just like her,they have to accept it, and stay out of it. If anything,they should be the one’s help their friend to move on.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (29 minutes after post)

there just worried about her calmly explane to them that u dont want to hurt her even more by leading her on and that maybe you should stay away for a bit. they should understand that, and if they dont then there being silly u did the right thing

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Tailz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (35 minutes after post)

kk.. so just leave it.. thanks

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

listen, you broke up with her. for whatever reason you just felt like you had to— fine.

You want to help her?

STAY AWAY FROM HER!
that helps her move on since you don’t want her anymore and finally find someone else.

(i know i’d wish my ex would…)

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