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any tips on getting a girl to like you?

if you’re already good friends, is there anyway…things to say, ways to behave that MIGHT help make her view you as more? i understand there’s no solid way but any advice at all would be appreciated!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Well it depends what kind of girl she is. and what kind of person you are. and what your relationship is like. Sometimes if you feel therss something there its best just to throw it out there. Maybe jokingly at first or something, dont like yell it from the rooftops. But with my experience its best just to get it out there in one form or another.
And if you really have no base in that sort of stuff with her. maybe try making one?
talk to her about relationships and find out what shes like

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

hmm tips to getting a girl to like you:

Dress to Impress but be yourself
groom yourself oh and smell good.
Smile, people look so much more attractive and open when they smile.
Be confident while standing/talking to her
Make Eye contact and try to make her laugh.

these will give ya the edge if there is any hope at all :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

oh if she is already your friend you just need to tell her how you feel, i have found face to face works the best. I know its not easy buts just something you gotta suck up and do, dont waste your time dropping hints and all that crap, just tell her whats up.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

Yes. Tell her how you feel. Be honest. Do not fear rejection. If it doesn’t work, then move on.

You can’t control anyone else’s emotions, so don’t think that her feelings about you depend on how you dress or your suaveness quotient. Gimmicks are only good for first impressions and flirting. If you care about someone just talk to them about it. Intimacy arises from mutual vulnerability and trust, so if you want intimacy you must risk being vulnerable and you must be willing to trust.

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